Use Your Words, Little Girl

Aaaaand...I scored.

2012-01-30T11:01:00.000-06:00

The process of cultivating some semblance of design in my apartment has been a slow one as I attempt to balance wants and needs, so I get pretty jazzed when I find a decor element that has been on my wish list for a can't-pass-it-up bargain!

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While scouring the aisles of Hobby Lobby for the materials needed for a Valentine's DIY I'm going to attempt, I happened upon a lovely ampersand that insisted on coming home with me. This lightweight, 12" symbol is available in antique gold (pictured) and bronze. (I opted for the latter because its elegant tone and patina melded well with the other pieces in my living room.)

The best part: it was on sale for $5! Quite the steal for a hanging that stylishly adorns the first wall seen upon entering the apartment. (Not that the alarm box isn't terribly chic.)

I couldn't wait to show M my find! His reaction: "Aaaand..." Me: "...it's awesome!" Oh, the little things.

{Giveaway} The Little Book of Etiquette

2012-01-28T08:00:00.000-06:00

Bon appetit!

It's giveaway time, friends! As a token of my appreciation for all the post views and comments that absolutely brighten my days, I wanted to do a little something to say thanks.

Y'all know I love me some cute little books, so when I spotted this sassy guide, I had to nab it for one of my readers! The Little Book of Etiquette is a charming collection of tips for dining out with manners. Its petite design makes this book suitable for permanent inclusion in your carry-all or placed playfully on a coffee table next to monogrammed coasters.

How to enter:

Leave a comment sharing your favorite thing about dining out.

For additional entries:

1. Follow me on Twitter.

2. Follow my blog via GFC.

3. Re-tweet or blog about this giveaway.

(Be sure to leave a separate comment for each entry.)

This giveaway will run through Wednesday, February 1st. I will randomly pick a winner and announce it here on February 2nd.

Happy weekend, dear readers!

Friday, I'm in Love, v.14 {Guest Blogger}

2012-01-27T07:00:00.000-06:00

Today's guest post is from one of my dear bloggy friends, Amanda at Do I Even Like This? If you dig her picks (which you will, they're fabulous), be sure to check out her Hit Lists. But don't blame me if your wish list expands by a dozen items after you've done so. Just sayin'.

It's Friday and Amanda's in love with...

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I've been on the hunt for something to keep snacks tidy in the depths of my handbag and this week, I've found it. These adorable cases from West Elm have a zipper (crucial) and can be personalized! Now just to decide, my name in a nice coordinating gray or a bright pop o' color?

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The hubs has been away on biz this week and that provided the perfect opportunity to get some spin time in with tunes that I love but that aren't at the top of his hit list. If you missed Fistful of Mercy's debut when it was released last year, get thy download on promptly. Ben Harper + Joseph Arthur + Dhani Harrison = singer/songwriter love fest at its best.

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I'm in the thick of it learning how to cook gluten free but, really, that's not nearly as important as getting some GF baking down so I've strapped my big girl pants on and taken the plunge with this recipe from Alton. I subbed Bob's Red Mill All Purpose GF flour for Alton's mash up and the results were, I gotta say, pretty darn good. Me want cookie!

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My fave mani/pedi girl (shout out to Ruslana at Juko -- if you're in Chi-town, look her up!) turned me onto this magical little pen. I am completely guilty of neglecting my cuticles out of sheer laziness but this pen makes it so easy. Just turn the crank, apply and push back for tidy, ladylike nails. Perfect for travel, it smells like heaven and it's vegan, too! What!? I know!

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Just 'cause it's on sale doesn't mean it's not heaven, y'all. I picked this JCrew cardi up in heather gray and we've been spending a lot of quality time together of late. It is super soft, warm and just long enough in the back to cover my bum bum so it can be paired with leggings or jeans. For once, she who is shortest wins!

Awesome stuff, huh? I have a cardi similar to the J. Crew lovely above and it's probably my favorite in my closet. It's very snuggle-worthy, and woop woop for covering the bum. High five, shorty!

I'll be announcing a new giveaway tomorrow, so be sure to check back!

Vegetarian lasagna. Yum.

2012-01-24T13:37:00.000-06:00

Confession: I have never before made lasagna.

OK, real confession: I didn't own a proper baking dish (other than an apparatus that could bake brownies, of course) until, oh, this past Thanksgiving. A baking cook, I am not. (Is that a thing? Anyway.)

But I ventured out of my comfort zone, inspired by my recently acquired Appetite for Reduction cookbook, and attempted Isa's Roasted Cauliflower Ricotta and Spinach Lasagna. (I knew I was in good hands given my last successful experiment with PPK's Ancho Lentil Tacos recipe.) I was also inspired by fellow blogger Melissa's 12 Meals in 12 Months in 2012 project to flex my cooking muscles a bit by branching out. I'm so enjoying tackling new recipes, even if they're not amazing the first time. (I may throw a tiny hissy fit when it doesn't turn out well, but that's a Type A chef for ya!)

Y'all, it was delicious. Vegan lasagna. And it was delicious. It took an hour and forty-five minutes (mostly because I didn't properly record the ingredients before shopping and I checked and rechecked the instructions about a hundred times before proceeding...and the lasagna noodles scared me). But it was delicious. M and I polished off every last bit of it. (OK, he only had one serving. But this makes delicious leftovers, and I am not even a leftovers girl!)

I admit, I augmented the recipe just a smidge but adding some freshly shredded Parmesan and panko to create a light, cheesy crust. So, vegan no more. But the heart wants what it wants.

This dish was served with some phenomenal Cabernet from Leoness Cellars in Temecula (courtesy of my dad's lovely girlfriend, Cynthia), French bread, and a salad: mixed greens and spinach, sun-dried tomatoes, feta, and almond slices, topped with olive oil and balsamic vinaigrette.

Light a candle and you've got yourself a date. Even if it's with yourself. Party on.

If you haven't already, hop on over to Do I Even Like This? to check out my bag spill. (Yes, I put my non-coordinating purse contents out there for all to see. You're welcome.)

Pointy Flats

2012-01-24T07:00:00.000-06:00

I recently purchased a pair of camel pointy flats from Aldo. Not only were they a steal of a deal, but I had been on the lookout for a more professional pair than my current neutral flats (which I still love, and also happen to be from Aldo). I am usually not a fan of pointy flats, nor pointy heels, really. Partially because they feel like my feet are being punished for bad behavior; partially because they generally show the dreaded toe cleavage. Dislike. But my new lovelies are quickly changing my mind, as they really up the elegance factor when paired with jeans, a loose tee and scarf, or with a tailored skirt for the office.

Here are some other pointy-toed cuties that have me thinking twice about my policy of round-toe only...

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Oh, I just adore these! I may have created a monster. I blame yet another enticing sale.

Are you loving one of these pairs? What are your thoughts on pointy shoes?

Austin Road Trip Recap {Photo Post}

2012-01-23T12:14:00.004-06:00

{THURSDAY} M made us to-go cappuccinos as we hit the road for Austin. (Jesus Panda loves road trips.)

Once in Austin, we joined our friends for lunch at Bouldin Creek Cafe (where I promptly scarfed down a Veggie Royale), walked along the trails, ran a few errands, picked up some coffee from Dominican Joe to rally for a late evening, and snacked on Izzoz tacos before heading out for the show.

All dressed up with Biscuit, one of my besties. We sipped on cabernet and swooned as we took in the show with our men.

The Civil Wars were AMAZING. It is rare to hear a band that sounds even better in person than they do on their album (especially with just a guitar and piano as accompaniment to their beautiful harmonies), but they're phenomenal. See them, especially if you can catch them at a venue as gorgeous as The Paramount.

{FRIDAY} Late breakfast at 24 Diner. Their veggie hash and coffee is probably one of my favorite meals, which goes to show you that quality ingredients can make a simple dish extraordinary. After fueling up, we perused the Whole Food flagship store across the street and stocked up on non-perishable yummies.

We rented a kayak from our hotel and paddled along Lady Bird Lake (Town Lake if you're OG), taking in the lovely view of downtown and heckling hippy ducks. An afternoon catnap followed shortly after.

Oh, Mandola's Italian Market. So, so yum. The concept of this place is adorable, from the fresh breads, meats and cheeses, to the accordion serenading dine-in guests as they enjoy house wines and delectable Italian eats.

M and I started with garlic fries and pesto dip, as well as herb-infused olive oil and freshly baked bread. For dinner, I ordered my usual (cheese ravioli) while M sampled the evening's special: five cheese manicotti. I swear, their marinara is laced with magic. It was like dining in Europe and we had the most lovely dinner date.

I couldn't leave without grabbing some gelato! They didn't have coffee flavor, which is my fave, but the mint was quite good.

After our Italian feast, we headed over to the Biscuit home to share some beverages and catch up. There are no photos from that portion of the evening, despite making it through without another seventh-grade-style slow dance to Wham's "Careless Whisper." (I don't know.)

{SATURDAY} Before heading home, we grabbed some cupcakes from Sugar Mama's (M finally got to experience The Hemingway...hummina) and dined at Mother's Cafe. I opted for one of their classics: the artichoke enchiladas with vegan cheese.

I missed a few photo ops here and there, but hopefully these shots provide a glimpse at the loveliness of our visit. We had such a fantastic weekend and definitely got our fill of good times and delicious eats. Can't wait to venture down south again soon!

Road Trip!

2012-01-18T12:22:00.000-06:00

M and I are trekking down to Austin tomorrow and I am positively giddy about it! I have not (to my own shock and confusion) been back to ATX since I moved away in July. I have since been jonesing for the likes of Sugar Mama's cupcakes, Bouldin's Veggie Royale, Mandola's ravioli, 24 Diner's veggie hash & coffee...I could go on for days, really.

As if the eats aren't reason enough to do a happy dance (not to mention road tripping with my honey and staying on the lake), we are going to see The Civil Wars tomorrow night!! Mr. and Mrs. Biscuit are going to join us, and I just know that this weekend is going to be awesomesauce.

I can't believe I haven't packed yet!! (Stop laughing. I seriously pack about a week before any sort of trip; including one for which you could feasibly throw everything into the backseat and just wing it. But I don't wing.) To that end, here is what I'm thinking for the show...

My outfit will be kind similar, minus some of these fantastic accessories (that I tragically don't own). I contemplated a dress, but figured I'd likely get pouty that I'm not wearing one as fabulous as Joy's, and that's just no fun for anyone. And (surprise, surprise) I'll be carrying a much bigger purse. (I mean, what if I need to write down an appointment in my agenda between sets or take some antacid in the midst of chair dancing to "Barton Hollow"?!) (Aaaand, this is where Mr. and Mrs. Biscuit wish they had purchased seats away from your crazy author.)

Happy trails, y'all!

On the Mend

2012-01-17T08:11:00.001-06:00

I really don't like missing work. Even if I'm for realsies sick (which I was yesterday), I start feeling guilty the moment I've made the call (or sent the email) and start thinking about other employees who have pushed through and worked while ill. I start feeling like a big baby and convince myself that many important decisions will be made in my absence, my team will be overrun with decisions and tasks, and I will have contributed nothing and therefore be deemed unnecessary on all accounts (except that I occasionally bring cookies and say somewhat funny and smart mouthed things in meetings).

Nevertheless, I spent many hours in bed yesterday, curled up in my new silk Vietnamese PJs from M, trying not to check my Blackberry every hour. It was kind of wonderful and, wow, what a difference a proper day of rest makes when you feel like garbage. M came over after a bit and made me noodle soup (Ramen sans meatness) and organic tea, as well as rented "Midnight in Paris" for us to watch after dinner.

Y'all, can I just tell you how amazing it was to be taken care of? I usually dismiss offers of help when I don't feel well, usually because I know I look like something lurking at the bottom of a Texas lake and probably smell equally was awesome, but I so enjoyed having someone not only be there, but armed with every possible, thoughtful get-well accoutrement.

The TLC made a world of difference. Now, here I am, back at the daily grind and feeling only a slight tickle in my throat. And because I couldn't muster up the strength to wash this mane, my hair looks a little something like this...

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...minus the sexiness. And, you know, brunette.

Sending Echinacea wishes and honey-lemon dreams,

Friday, I'm in Love, v.13

2012-01-13T07:00:00.000-06:00

It's Friday and I'm in love with...

All images via Pinterest

I experienced mild chest pains when I peeped the price of the only running shoes that didn't instantly inflict brutal pain on my arches, but got over it as soon as I walked the trails in my Nike Vomeros. They're perfect for my weekday power walks along the Trinity. Also handy during these walks is my Bobble bottle that M got me for Christmas. We have free bottled water here at work, but this recycling gal has a hissy fit at the idea of going through a bottle a day (plus) to stay hydrated. The filter on this BPA-free bottle works great!

NYE may have come and gone, but who needs a holiday to sport sassy nails?! Spicing up a neutral nail with gold sparkle is a great way to keep the post-holiday ho-hums at bay. I am also a huge fan of casual braids on days when you just don't feel like getting all your tools and styling crap out to deal with your mane. I'm letting my hair to grow long again so that I can sport a chic, loose side braid without looking like a JV cheerleader. In the meantime, Davines' Universal Polishing Coat keeps my naturally curly hair from going all Simba on me during these misty January days. No joke, one finger-comb through with this stuff and my hair is perfectly shaped until I wash it again.

What are you lovin'?

Polka Dots, Checks and Stripes

2012-01-12T08:14:00.001-06:00

While I may swoon over Parisian fashion, it has become apparent that I am an All American Girl when it comes to style. (This is one of the benefits of Pinterest, in my estimation: nothing like realizing the patterns of your own taste when you see a board littered with pristine, white interiors and layered, textured outfits.) While I believe that most Fashion (with a capital F) is derivative of European design, there is a distinct swagger to styling in the states that I just adore. I think it's the mix of classics and comfort that get me all twitterpated.

All images via Pinterest

Ok, so the plethora of black and white here no doubt screams Paris, oui? But coupled with denim, some well-chosen statement accessories and gently tousled hair, you've got yourself a look that will make those amber waves of grain sing with pride...even if you're still jonesing for a baguette and fromage.

I'm 30 Today

2012-01-11T08:26:00.002-06:00

I'm my blessed 30 years of life thus far, I have: fallen in love // traveled to Europe // performed on stage // graduated from university // lived on both coasts (and in between) // gained a father // lost my beloved mother // reconnected with a father // embraced my inner child // given my life to Christ // built up walls // let my walls down // learned to paint my own nails without going outside the lines // developed a special language with my brother // gained a sister // became an aunt // cried in public // gotten 2 tattoos // prayed on my knees // developed soulful friendships // been a ballerina // learned to cook // been moved to tears by sights beautiful beyond imagination // had my heart broken // seen God in my friends and family // broken my wrist // swam in several oceans // ridden a roller coaster // carried a gun // watched myself age // driven solo up the West Coast // bonded with an animal // swallowed my pride // dropped it like it's hot // never gone hungry, thirsty or without shelter // worn PJs in public // received immense grace // lived.

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Today is a day of joy, of celebration, of reflection and of dreaming. Thank you for the love and encouragement y'all have given me thus far. It is truly such a gift. This Little Girl is beyond blessed.

You're invited...

2012-01-10T12:21:00.001-06:00

Given the ability to teleport and a space in which to host, I would throw a marvelous soiree for us to celebrate together all the lovely winter babies' birthdays during these first few weeks of January! I'm thinking tea sandwiches, macaroons, profiteroles and champagne cocktails served out in the garden.

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Sending birthday love and wishes to...

April at The Happiness Habit (Jan. 5th)
Lisi at The Beauty File (Jan. 6th)
Meg at Henning Love (Jan. 10th)
Alexa at The Short and Sweet of It (Jan. 10th)
Kendralyn at Jersey Love and Laughter (Jan. 13th)
Rebecca at The Vintage Bicycle (Jan. 17th)
Stephanie at Big Mario Life (Jan. 13th)
Kate Middleton at...um...the palace* (Jan. 9th)

I'm also sending birthday wishes outside of the Blogosphere to my dadoo (Jan. 13th), Uncle Mark (Jan. 5th) and M's adorable niece Braiden (Jan. 10th).

Aaaaaand I'd be remiss if I didn't mention that tomorrow is also this little girl's birthday. It's my 30th, y'all. Thir-tee! (Stay tuned...I'm sure I'll be reflecting my arse off tomorrow.)

That's a lot of celebration in a matter of weeks, huh? I say we join together, bust up a pinata (which in my dreams is filled with makeup and puppies**) and send some happy vibes to this birthday bunch. Are y'all with me?! You bring the party hats!

Repondez, s'il vous plait,

*OK, so the Duchess isn't a blogger, but I heart her.
**No animals were harmed in the daydreaming of said pinata beating.

Fabulous Find

2012-01-09T08:48:00.001-06:00

In trying to be mindful of unneccesary spending, I haven't allowed myself to shop in a while. But my birthday is around the corner (Wednesday, eep!) so I decided a few pretties might not be so bad. I do think it's important to purchase items that you love, but as I am still a thrifty gal at heart (despite my expensive taste), budget-friendly stores are often where I start perusing for my wish list items. (See, there's a focus, at least!)

Enter: Old Navy. I typically have zero luck at ON, except for PJ pants or basic tees. But I lucked out and found this little pretty just yesterday...

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A proper blouse that I can hand wash and is under $30? Come to Natty! The fabric is soft as can be and the color is even prettier in person. (I also like the navy blue printed one, but I opted for this Bali shade.)

I styled this top with black slacks (tucked in), a simple black leather belt and flats, with silver hoops and loose waves. (Very Calvin Klein.) But it would also look lovely with skinnies tucked into riding boots, or dressed up with cuffed dark denim, my nude slingbacks and gold MK watch. (Because ON uses vanity sizing, it has a very blousy-borderlining-on-tunic fit. Well, it does for this shorty, at least.) And though the sleeves are shown rolled up (which some of the reviews complain doesn't stay), I left them loose with the button secured, which I happen to think looks more chic and flattering.

I am on a mission to invest in lovely, quality (read: pricey) pieces for my wardrobe, but this frugal find was just too great to pass up and keep to myself.

Have you found any steals lately? Do tell!

My Hit List

2012-01-06T08:21:00.000-06:00

Today I have the absolute pleasure of sharing my Hit List over at Do I Even Like This? A & E asked me to share some of the lovelies that are on my radar (in the same vein as my Friday, I'm in Love posts) as part of their Blogger's Hit List series. These gals update their own Hit Lists (viewable on the sidebars of their blog) quite frequently, and I love peeping their selections. (These gals have great taste, let me tell you!)

Check it out and let me know what would be on your Hit List!

My Un-Resolutions

2012-01-04T07:00:00.000-06:00

The fabulous gals over at Do I Even Like This? have inspired me to participate in brainstorming a few deliberate goals for myself ("un-resolutions") to pursue in 2012 (a.k.a. Do This Like You Mean It). In recent years, I try to just make a concerted effort to start the years off right (skipping the laundry list of resolutions), so this focused attempt at betterment for the coming year sounds like my cup of tea (...er, coffee)!

For the Ds, click on the button to check out their post about this project.

My 2012 Un-Resolutions:

1. For Self Betterment - Spend more time with God. I want to give my first moments of the day to the Lord, not to social media, or email, or coffee. (I can still heart my coffee, but my loves must be ordered and given due affection. Patience, my dear dark roast.) This goal includes getting a grip on the intimidation that keeps me from spending time in the Word. (It's English, Nat! You got this!)

2. For Others - Serve those I love. Ugly truth: I can be pretty self-absorbed. I figure baby steps are the best way to initiate life-long behavioral changes, so I'll start with opening up my time and consideration for those I know and love, hoping that that will lead to me stepping up and serving those I don't know (or always like). This may take the form of caring for someone's kiddos without pay, cleaning their house, helping to organize a garage/closet/basement, dropping off a home-cooked meal, etc.

3. For Enjoyment - Travel. This actually helps me with #1 as well since traveling so stirs my affections for Him. I don't make enough time or earmark funds for travel, yet it's so enriching!

Get in on this! Visit A & E's blog, post your link to be included and grab a button. I'm excited to see what other bloggers are working on this year!

Ballerina Chic

2012-01-03T07:00:00.000-06:00

Having spent over a decade as a ballerina, there is something within that still lights up at even the slightest hint of that pink satin world. (Much in the same way I start searching for the nearest barre on which to practice my plies whenever I hear classical music. It's all very Pavlovian.)

I'm pleased as punch to see all of the charming ways in which ballet style has seeped into fashion at large. Some of these details are considered classic at this point (er, pointe...hehe), while others serve as a whimsical nod to the prima ballerina within us all.

All photos via Pinterest

Have you gotten in on this trend? What is your favorite ballerina-inspired look?

The Joy of a Softened Heart

2012-01-02T08:30:00.000-06:00

I read an article recently that sort of rocked my world. It wasn't new information that necessarily knocked me over, but rather my receptiveness to reading how a biblical relationship should look that surprised the pants off of me. (Not literally, of course. I'm a la-dy!)

If you look back on some of my older posts about relationships, it should be obvious that a whoooole lot has gone on in my heart. God has been trying to shape this little girl for decades, but I refused to let him in. I refused to let many things in. (As I've shared before, my friends lovingly referred to me as "Alcatraz" because of my complete unwillingness to express emotion or be vulnerable.)

Lock-down notwithstanding, I still managed to get hurt and have my heart broken by boyfriends, friends and even family. I wasn't protecting anything, but rather closing myself off from the offer of His sovereign love, an acceptance of which would free me to approach my relationships accordingly: not treat them as my subject of worship and therefore set myself up for inevitable disappointment. This is not to say that I no longer believe in or have faith in people. Quite the opposite, actually. I'm more open to love and intimacy than I've ever been before.

(Side note: I'm drafting this in Starbucks while listening to Joy Williams's "Speaking a Dead Language" and my eyes are filled with tears. How's that for growth? I'm showing emotion in public, y'all! More importantly, I'm fine with it. It's a joyful experience, truth be told.)

The difference is that I know my identity and my happiness are safely in the hands of a loving, almighty God. I know that people are broken, sinful and feeble. (And, truth be told, I still sometimes lose my focus and misplace my affections.) In spite of this, we can glorify Him by sharing life together, encouraging each other, loving each other and keeping one another accountable.

The article above considers relationships between men and women seeking marriage (or not, in the case of modern dating). I, for years, excluded God from my relationships. Even if we went to church, it was just that: going through the motions to check that item off the list. Can I be all that surprised that I have yet to marry? (I don't bemoan that I'm of a certain age and haven't yet had the privilege of a family and marriage. The desire is definitely there, but I know I am exactly where I am supposed to be. I've checked myself before I've wrecked myself.)

Without assuming too much about my current relationship (in terms of what is in store for us), I will say that letting Christ lead your time together while dating (and seeking a guy who is willing to step up and guide the relationship while submitting to God) makes a world of difference. The focus becomes learning if you're a good partner for someone else; not finding the right person for you. As broken people, we can't expect perfection. But we do. I certainly did.

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It's far easier to pursue being the women I know God is calling me to be (which is quite far removed from the identity I created for myself) when I place my trust in Him. Relationship-wise, that requires trust in my fella, which is much less of a challenge when I place that faith in someone who isn't a bonehead. (Ladies, don't date boneheads.) Trust, we struggle: with each other, with ourselves, with what God expects from us. But the best stuff comes from struggles and changes. My heart didn't soften overnight, and it certainly didn't happen while I was being carried around on a cashmere pillow and fed grapes. (But how rad would that be?)

I don't pretend to be on a steady path to blissful happiness. I am stubborn and prideful as can be, so I expect some loving shakes and sacrifices along the way. But I am immensely thankful for God's intervention in my life, for opening my eyes and finding a home in my heart.

Au revoir, 2011...bonjour, 2012!

2011-12-31T11:00:00.000-06:00

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My dear readers/bloggers,

I cannot thank y'all enough for the encouragement and inspiration over the last year. Your comments absolutely brighten my days, and your posts remind me just how extraordinary people can be. I value you gals and guys very much, and look forward to sharing more laughs, loveliness and friendship in the coming year.

2011 was a very blessed year for this little girl. God has been so good to me and my family, and I know that 2012 will be another year of great challenges met with great faith. I'm thankful for every moment.

Y'all be safe tonight, wherever your celebrations take you. I'm looking very forward to kicking off 2012 with y'all next week. Until then...

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...celebrate and get your sparkly on!

Much love,

Friday, I'm in Love, v.12 {2011 in Review}

2011-12-29T16:04:00.000-06:00

It's the last Friday of the year and here's what I loved "best" in 2011...

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Best film: Super 8. To be fair, I haven't been to the theater near as much as I should've this year, so I know there are some gems I've still yet to see. But this film was fantastic. It was nostalgic, enchanting, well executed, and had just the right balance of genuine, character-driven storyline with the signature J.J. Abrams sci-fi twist.

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Best album: Barton Hollow by The Civil Wars. Since downloading this album in February, it has been in heavy rotation in my car, on my nightstand dock (I alternate between "The Violet Hour" and "My Father's Father" as my alarm), and during my travels. I was ecstatic to see that their cover of Leonard Cohen's "Dance Me to the End of Love" made it on the album. It's flawless.

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Best legislation: labeling regulations for sunscreen. I am not generally a huge fan of the FDA, but they finally took a step in the right direction when they introduced regulations for how sunscreen may be labeled and marketed to consumers. They certainly have a long way to go in terms of enforcing truth in labeling across the board for the products they oversee (specifically food, but that's another soapbox for another time), but this is an important change and one that will hopefully create awareness about sun safety.

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Best trend: demure elegance a la Kate Middleton. I heart Kate. I really do. She has brought modesty back in vogue, which this prude really appreciates, and did so in a way that is timeless and elegant beyond her years. She is also a minimalist, which I adore. Homegirl could be draped in diamonds, yet she chooses understated pieces, classic lines and an exquisite color palette. Cheers, Mrs. Wills!

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Best song: "Down in the Valley" by The Head and The Heart. It's tough not to pick one of the many lovelies off of Barton Hollow, but I positively adore this song. It's layered, rustic, melodic, and simply demands the listener sing along and tap their feet. The transitions within this tune create a sense of receiving an awesome two-for-one. I can't get enough of it.

What were some of your "best" loves in 2011?

This calls for some bubbly and a party dress!

2011-12-29T10:47:00.002-06:00

New Year's Eve is a special night, fashion-wise, because you can get away with a whole lot of sassiness in the name of celebration. Party dresses, sparkly accessories and glitter galore abound, and when you add sparklers and champagne to the mix, you've got one heck of an evening!

Since my honey is out of the country for NYE, I decided to for-go a night on the town in favor of a chill evening staying in with some friends and their kiddos. (Not gonna lie, this homebody loves any excuse to lay low.) So while my celebratory get-up will look a lot like this...

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...paired with Hello Kitty slippers and a ponytail, I had to throw together a little something for my inner fashionista...

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...paired with a smoky eye and messy chignon. This is a good mix of sexy and sweet, in my book, and would be comfortable enough to last the evening without undergarment mishaps or freezing my rear off. (Stylishness and wearability are not mutually exclusive in my closet, y'all!)

Upon M's return to the states, we're going to celebrate 2012 (as well as my 30th, eep!), so there will be plenty of opportunities to bust out the party dress after this weekend! Meanwhile, I'm looking very forward to the laughs and good times that will ensue on Saturday as my friends and I play games, watch movies and enjoy some cocktails and snacks.

It's gonna be a great new year, I can just feel it!

What are you wearing for your New Year's festivities?

Milestones

2011-12-28T10:11:00.000-06:00

Today is a very special day over here at Use Your Worlds, Little Girl. I am celebrating a couple of cool milestones, blog-wise, and want to share a little woop woop! (We must celebrate the little things, y'all.)

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Since launching this blog on April 22, 2009, I've gone through many changes: mentally, geographically, spiritually, etc. Use Your Words continues to be such a valuable outlet in my life, and I cannot express enough my appreciation for all of you who have made this experience so wonderful.

This post marks number 200, which is even more exciting as I have just welcomed my 100th follower! I know that these numbers are mild for the blogosphere at large, but as a wayward personal blogger, it's as good as a thousand in my eyes!

Looking back, it makes me smile to see that my most popular posts of all time happen to be some of my favorites as well: It's like "tit for tat"...only nice, I'm in the mood for..., and Why Edward Cullen is Bad News. (I was pretty stoked when the Edward Cullen post was mentioned in Details Magazine online. Sure, there are more lofty subjects on which to be quoted, but I'll take it. Thanks again to Jeff Gordinier!)

I am so thankful to be part of this wonderful community of bloggers and look forward to these connections growing and expanding in the years to come! Thank you for sharing in this journey with me, y'all.

Much love,

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Nesting: The Perfect Tray

2011-12-27T07:00:00.000-06:00

As I disassemble the Christmas tree and return the furniture to its original layout, I find myself once again noticing all the decor elements missing in my apartment: a statement piece for the wall above the TV, a rug for the living room, decorative pieces for the dresser, etc. But until I have fully recovered from holiday spending, small, budget-friendly touches will have to tide me over.

My current quest: the perfect tray(s) on which to display photos, candles and other decor elements, creating organized vignettes throughout the apartment. There are so many options available as far as color, texture and shape. I'm having a hard time narrowing it down to just a few, so don't be surprised to find my place positively littered with trays in no time!

Some of my favorites at the moment...

elegant chevron // simple mirrored // sexy snakeskin
croc that pops // clean white // in my dreams

I'm still learning how to maximize use of color and create interesting focal points; the pop of color and texture of the square croc tray from Z Gallerie would create an ideal canvas for this. But the clean simplicity of the white and mirrored numbers are timeless and would fit perfectly with the throwback vibe of my bedroom. (Fresh gardenias, vintage family photos and antique skeleton keys, anyone?)

Which is your favorite? What would you include in your vignette?

Christmas Spoils

2011-12-26T11:46:00.000-06:00

To say that I am blessed is an understatement. I am positively spoiled. The sheer volume of gifts, on top of the thoughtfulness with which each item was selected, was nearly overwhelming. In the sound words of Wayne and Garth: "[I'm] not worthy!"

Cuddled up at work with a few of my gifts.
Anthro scarf & Natalya's Studio cozy

A sample from this year's collection o' lovely gifts: J. Crew Majesty peacoat, proper pajamas, Hello Kitty slippers and ornament, food processor(s), gorgeous graphite date book featured here, Sur La Table measuring cups and spoons, bamboo cutting board, I Love Your Style, cozy scarves, framed photos of me and my honey, and a stash of my fave candies (Red Vines, Heath bar, Almond Roca, Mounds) to last me months! See? Spoiled.

Fabulous gifts aside, this Christmas was wonderful for many reasons...
~It was my first with M; truly a holiday to remember.
~My dear Mamaw had a scare on Christmas Eve but recovered completely to join us for Christmas lunch.
~My brother was able to fly in from Cali.
~I was blessed with some absolutely fantastic moments with the kiddos.
~And most importantly, every celebration began with prayer, thanking God for the gift of His son, that we may have life because of Christ. A family rooted in faith is an immeasurable gift.

I hope you all had a wonderful weekend of celebration and love, and that it continues into this week and the new year. We truly have so much to celebrate, every day. Enjoy the time of rest, for those of you cuddled up and disconnecting for a few more days.

Christmas Blessings

2011-12-23T10:22:00.002-06:00

Though the time has slipped away from me a bit this year, and I don't feel like I got to do everything I had hoped for this season, I am so incredibly thankful for all the memories I have made in the past months. God has blessed my life with the most wonderful, loving, giving people, and I don't take a second of their time or an ounce of their grace for granted. This includes many of you lovely bloggers! Y'all enrich my days, inspire my daydreams, and encourage me as true friends.

Keeping with this week's Christmas Traditions Series, I will share a few of my favorite Christmas customs:

Decorating the Christmas tree can be a pain in the rear, no doubt. But my mom, brother and I tried our best over the years to make it a special occassion. We put on some holiday tunes, poured ourselves an ice cold Coke, warmed up some queso (we classy, y'all), and engaged in playful banter as we assembled the many limbs of our giant tree and struggled to get the lights perfectly distributed. (Watching 3 slightly OCD folks trying to string lights is a sight, let me tell you.) The shenanigans are part of what makes this event so memorable, and the ornaments themselves embody many fond memories and silly inside jokes. (Bobby Digital snowman is one of my faves. Love you, Brov.) Mom's memorial ornament hangs front and center of all of the family's trees, and her love and laughter are still felt year after year.

Though the best holiday moments are spent surrounded by family, I also cherish the quiet times, snuggled up on the couch in a big blankie, watching Christmas movies with my mister, and hearing the fire crackle in the background. I relish that moment when I look around and just sigh, knowing how blessed I am to experience such warmth and joy. My home is truly a retreat for me, and seeing it lit up and decorated with lights and bows is like walking in to a big hug every evening.

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Christmas Eve is one of my favorite evenings of the whole year. Not because of the promise of presents the next morning. (Though, trust, my family never lets us down on the present front. They spoil us rotten, naughty little elves!) It is one of the few, treasured days of the year when the whole family gets together, brings delicious appetizers and snacks to our spread, catches up and exchanges gifts. (We draw names now that our family tree has expanded its limbs. I'm so thankful for this generation of kiddos who have breathed new life into our celebrations. And they have bouncy houses at their birthdays. Holla!) We have really pulled each other close (even closer than before) to fill the gap in our hearts, and I could not ask for a more fantastic group of people to proudly call my family.

I pray that you and your family enjoy the weekend ahead and remember all the blessings given to us all. We are loved by the ultimate Father and fortunate beyond measure, wherever life finds you this year. Hold each other close and bask in the love of the season.

Merry Christmas, my dear readers!

Guest Blogger Series: Anna's Christmas Traditions

2011-12-22T07:00:00.000-06:00

It's day four of my guest blogger series for the holidays! I hope ya'll have enjoyed posts thus far from Stephanie at Big Mario Life and Amanda and Elizabeth at Do I Even Like This? Their stories have been so sweet and remind me exactly why I love this time of year so much. Anna's post today is no exception.

Bloggers like Anna create such a wonderful sense of community within the blogosphere. Her blog, In Honor of Design, is one of my must-reads and reflects so well her great eye(she's a graphic designer), elegant taste, and humble, wonderful heart. (I can imagine she's a fantastic mama.)

I am lucky to come from a family with ten brothers and sisters! We have many traditions and Christmas is now a rare time where we can all be together under one roof. Our Christmas Eve traditions I look forward to year round...and now my husband does too:)

We all dress up and attend Christmas Eve Mass. On the way home we drive through the neighborhood to spot out all the best Christmas lights. As soon as we walk in the door at home, all hands work together to prepare a Christmas Eve feast of our favorite appetizers. We will then gather around the fireplace in the family room and do our annual gift exchange. This is by far has provided my most favorite Christmas memories.

My siblings and I are all very close, and its beautiful to see how each person (now including husbands and a few babies) really makes such an effort to pick the most special gift for the brother or sister whose name they drew that year. It has brought tears to my eyes on numerous occasions. We end the night with carols around the piano and leaving out cookies for St. Nicholas of course;) I am getting excited just thinking about it!

Um, does anyone else want to join Anna's family? Carols around the piano?! Want. (Nevermind the fact that I'd be lip syncing. It's the festive principle!) I am really tight with my sibling too (though there are only two of us), and so appreciate the close bond that I am blessed enough to share with my brother. I know not all family members can forge those relationships, so it's quite a gift to be so connected to your kin. Thanks for this warm story of holiday love, Anna!

My Day In Pictures

2011-12-21T15:32:00.000-06:00

I don't know about y'all, but I've so enjoyed the Christmas traditions posts over the past few days! I didn't want to totally mail it in on my blog duties, though, so here are a few snapshots to fill y'all in on my day thus far...

My co-worker's pup Oliver stopped by for a visit. Dude loves him some pearls.

Sipping on a Venti black iced tea so this old lady can make it through the evening. (Our office Christmas party is tonight. Woop!)
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Listened to The Civil Wars and drove around with the windows down during my lunch break. Refreshed my soul.
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A look at today's get-up (approximately). I went for classic and festive, something that would transition from work to play. Bring on the tasty eats and fancy cocktails!

Hope you are having a wonderful week and take a moment to enjoy the spark in the air of the Christmas season!

Guest Blogger Series: Amanda's Christmas Traditions

2011-12-21T08:00:00.000-06:00

It's day three of my guest blogger series for the holidays! Woop! Every day this week I will be featuring one of my favorite gals from the blogosphere to share her own Christmas traditions.

Yesterday you heard from Elizabeth, and today we'll get the scoop from Amanda at Do I Even Like This? These ladies create a dialogue with their posts that is so unique and fun to read. Amanda is a fellow coffee addict and about as interested in adopting new technology as I am. (Page me, girl. I hit you back on my flip phone, yo.)

Tell us a story, A...

Christmas is my absolute favorite time of year and since the hubs and I are a family of two plus dog living away from our families, we’ve worked extra hard to develop some holiday traditions of our own. Here are four of the things that make our Christmases super special.

Christmas Eve is our time to celebrate the holiday together. We make dinner reservations at either a fancy or favorite restaurant, depending on our collective mood, and get prettied up for a very special date night. Since we’ve lived in northerly climates since we’ve been married (6 years!), we nearly always have snow so it feels extra special to take in the sights and lights on our venture to and fro. At home we change into our jammies, exchange gifts, listen to all of our Christmas favorites, sip cocoa and love on our pooch.

A view of the Hancock building taken through a veil of Christmas lights. Taken our first Christmas in Chicago.

One of my personal favorite traditions is sending holiday cards. We do this every year and although the hubs doesn’t relish all that envelope licking, he suffers it quietly for my sake. I think choosing a good Christmas card is such an important task since for so many people it will be the only way in which we’re able to offer a greeting of cheer. This is our first year doing photo cards, something that we had major reservations about but that I always love receiving from others.

Our card for this year, ordered from Minted.com with a photo from our Thanksgiving trip to Hawaii.

A newish tradition for us is Cookie Day with friends. We have a very dear group of friends and so we assemble in some kitchen quite early on a Sunday and bake until our fingers bleed. Well, the ladies do. The men watch football and work diligently as taste testers. All of our friends come from diverse backgrounds and so it becomes something of an international cookie festival. This year everyone got a little over-committed so we’re actually taking a day off from work to make this happen. Talk about commitment to the plan!

A sampling of the take from last year’s cookie extravaganza. There were so many more cookies than we could think to consume that we had to package them up to ship away to other friends and family.

Although the memories we create together are fantastic, I still love having a little something special to remember the year by. Yeah, something shiny. Each year we buy an annual ornament from Simon Pearce and have the back of the globe engraved with a word or phrase that reminds us of something special from the year. They usually reference travel but my favorite says “Mr. Ollie Goes To Connecticut” from 2006 when we adopted our pooch and then swiftly whisked him away to the wilds of Fairfield County.

From Simon Pearce website, 2011 Annual Ornament

Doesn't her Christmas Eve celebration sound like perfection? That's a tradition that M and I would love. (Noted.) And I totally appreciate the importance with which she considers Christmas cards. (Exhibit A.) Such lovely celebrations and certainly festive! Thanks for inspiration (and mad craving for some cookies right about now), Amanda!

Holiday Questionnaire

2011-12-20T15:38:00.000-06:00

I couldn't resist...

1. Eggnog or hot chocolate?
(Mexican) Hot chocolate.

2. Does Santa wrap your presents or just sit them under the tree?
Wraps 'em, but stocking stuffers are usually unwrapped.

3. Colored lights or white lights?
White lights.

4. Do you hang mistletoe?
No, but would it be weird to hang bunches of basil?

5. When do you hang up your holiday decorations?
Usually the weekend after Thanksgiving.

6. What is your favorite holiday dish (excluding desserts)?
Not any one dish in particular, but our Christmas Eve spread of appetizers (Texas Caviar, queso, croissant sandwiches, cheese and crackers, veggie tray, lil' smokies, etc.) is one of my favorite meals of the year.

7. What is your favorite holiday memory from childhood?
I remember waking up Christmas morning, waiting for Mom and Dad to get their coffee and brush their teeth before we could go in the living room, pacing in our PJs, then running toward the tree to take in the sights of presents from Santa. (Mom would wrap the boxes in brown paper and address them from the North Pole.) We'd spend hours unwrapping and assembling everything, playing for a bit, then throw on some clothes and head to the movie theater.

8. What is on your Christmas wish list?
Ballet flats, proper pajamas and kitchen stuff.

9. Do you open gifts on Christmas Eve?
We were allowed to open one present on Christmas Eve, but the rest had to wait for Christmas morning. I still get to open one on Christmas Eve during the family exchange!

10. How do you decorate your tree?
White lights, scarlet and gold ornaments (mostly), and twisted ribbon cascading down.

11. Snow - love it or dread it?
Love it! Once in a blue moon we get a White Christmas in Texas.

12. Real tree or fake tree?
Fake. Real trees smell delish, I'll give you that, but fake ones make more sense for me.

13. Do you remember your favorite gift?
(I'm gonna cheat here because I can't recall a favorite present from Christmas.) One of my most treasured gifts is my mom's beautiful wedding ring, given to me by my Pops the morning she passed.

14. What's the most important thing about Christmas to you?
Time with my family. Hands down. It's the perfect excuse to come together and visit.

15. What is your favorite holiday dessert?
Toffee candies!

16. What is your favorite holiday tradition?
Putting up the tree, candlelight service and gathering for Christmas Eve.

17. What do you put on top of your tree?
A gold and scarlet angel. (Her wings fell off this year. That's probably not a good sign.)

18. Do you prefer giving or receiving?
Definitely giving. I like to give gifts that people won't buy for themselves, so the smiles and "Yay!" moments totally make my holiday.

19. What is your favorite Christmas song?
O Holy Night.

20. Candy canes - yucky or yummy?
The rainbow-colored cherry ones are delish. Not a fan of the peppermint ones, though.

21. Favorite Christmas movie(s)?
Elf, Polar Express, Love Actually (yes huh!) and Christmas Vacation.

22. What do you leave for Santa?
Frosted sugar cookies and milk.

23. Do you have a Christmas morning tradition?
In the past, open presents and stockings over coffee with my immediate family. This year I am going to church with my honey and his family, so presents will probably happen after that.

24. Do you prefer to shop online or at the mall?
Online. Going to the mall at least once for ideas and ambiance is pretty fun, but I do the bulk of it online. (Holla, free shipping!)

25. Christmas letter or Christmas card?
Card, fo sho.

Ok, now you go! Re-blog this questionnaire or leave some comments to share how you would respond to some of these.

(Thanks for the idea, Stephanie...who got it from Anna...etc. )

Guest Blogger Series: Elizabeth's Christmas Traditions

2011-12-20T08:37:00.000-06:00

Welcome to day two of my guest blogger series for the holidays! I hope you all got a moment to read Stephanie's post yesterday. Every day this week I will be featuring one of my favorite gals from the blogosphere to share their own Christmas traditions.

Today's post comes from Elizabeth at Do I Even Like This? It felt like a homecoming of sorts when I found E and A's blog (stay tuned for Amanda's post tomorrow); they were like the super funny, excellent-taste-having, long-lost friends I'd lost touch with and rediscovered. E also recently relocated to Seattle with her family, which makes her even cooler in my book. (Big ups, Pacific Northwest!)

Take it away, E!

I am very much looking forward to Christmas this year as we will be celebrating it in a new city, Seattle. More importantly we will be spending it with our newest addition, our son Oliver. Having the little guy in our lives has made me think of all the holiday traditions that I grew up with and wish to pass on to him.

I can’t wait to take little Oliver on his first tree expedition. Growing up I remember going out with my dad and finding the best looking tree for our home. It was always such a great adventure no matter the weather. Chris and I seek out a local tree farm and then go on the hunt to find the perfect one. Depending on weather conditions the search may last over an hour or as short as 15 minutes. Cold conditions = Speedy Selection.

Christmas Tree in 2010

This tree pretty much replicates our trees we had growing up down to the multi-colored blinking lights.

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A soft little animal and some sweet treats will no doubt be in store for Oliver next year. I think we will use one of his father’s boots for the loot. There is no harm in dreaming big when you're still so tiny.

Some have Miracle on 34th Street or A Christmas Story. We have Elf. Each Christmas Eve Chris and I settle in on the couch with some jazzed up hot chocolate and watch as Buddy the Elf spreads yuletide cheer. I know this seems a bit silly but I love it. Just writing about it has made me grin form ear to ear.

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Yep, just the three of us and Will Ferrell on Christmas Eve. I love it!

I love me some Elf! It just isn't the holiday season without it! (Or a random Tuesday in July. Or on a handful of weekends in the spring. Or...OK, it's good, clean fun all year 'round, y'all!) Thanks so much for sharing these traditions with us, Elizabeth!

Greeting cards have all been sent...

2011-12-20T07:00:00.000-06:00

I understand that some view it as a chore, but I absolutely love sending Christmas cards! A few years back, I pared down my list quite a bit because I found myself enjoying this tradition less and less as the recipient list grew a little out of hand. I didn't want to sacrifice writing notes by hand, and I don't have my own family just yet to justify getting one of the many adorable pre-printed photo cards (like, say, anything from Minted), so I just reeled it in and focused a bit.

Picking out Christmas cards is admittedly something I take more seriously than I should (poor M got to experience my rabid indecision firsthand), but I just treasure them so and assume others do them same. (Please don't ruin my dream!)

This year I chose these beauties from Made by Michelle Brusegaard:

I really wanted to use handmade cards, so I spent some time on Etsy perusing the many lovely, crafty creations. I just fell in love with the vibrant colors and peacock feather motif of this set, not to mention flat note cards are a favorite of mine. (They're like chic postcards.) I felt strongly that I wasn't cool enough to pull off such a modern holiday expression, but I went for it anyway and am so glad I did!

Grabbing a great pen and sitting down at the table with a hot cappuccino and my lovely Christmas cards...it just isn't the holidays for me without that experience.

What are your traditions when it comes to Christmas cards? Do you go for hand-written cards, Christmas letters, festive photos or skip the whole thing?

On Holiday Treats and My Total Lack of Willpower

2011-12-19T12:47:00.001-06:00

My wonderful co-workers have ensured that no one in this here office will go hungry this season. Every time I walk into our break room, there is a new platter of homemade lovelies just waiting to be nommed. The guys and gals alike are contributing to the abundance of snacks, and seeing all the different traditions and twists on holiday fare is a neat way to engage your workmates.

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The near-constant barrage of cookies, candies and tasty baked goods is very, very dangerous for this little piggy. My personal favorites are toffee anything (I would lick my monitor if I thought there was even the slightest chance that the screen would taste like these buttery bits of heaven pictured above) and Chex Mix. (It's pretty tough to beat my Mamaw's Chex Mix, but salty snacks in general are all right by me and I can do some damage regardless.)

I'm still trying to decide what I'd like to contribute to the feast. I thought about whipping up some of the holiday pretzel treats I mentioned the other day, but M made a batch of Rice Krispie Treats over the weekend using whole wheat (and gluten-free) Rice Krispies that were pretty darn amazing. So many yummy options to choose from!

What Christmas treats are you making this year? Any favorite holiday snacks?

Guest Blogger Series: Stephanie's Christmas Traditions

2011-12-19T07:42:00.000-06:00

Today kicks off the first day of my guest blogger series for the holidays. I asked a handful of my favorite bloggers to share with me their favorite Christmas traditions. This time of year, I struggle with keeping the holiday in perspective and trying not to lose sight of the real celebration: the birth of our savior. I love presents and twinkle lights as much as the next gal, but it's the time spent with family and friends, laughing, worshiping and catching up, that warms my heart so. As wisely stated in one of my favorite rom-coms: "Love actually is all around."

I started following Stephanie at Big Mario Life just a few months ago and was charmed from the get-go. Her posts vacillate between fashion, food, her personal life, her travels and her beautiful photography. I am a huge fan of her Awkward & Awesome Thursday series; these posts make me chuckle (and maybe spit out my coffee) every time.

Without further ado, I present to y'all Stephanie's Christmas traditions...

Growing up, my family had lots of little Christmas traditions - tamales for dinner on Christmas Eve followed by midnight mass (the only time of year I was allowed to stay up that late!), candy and oranges in our stockings, my Aunt Bertha's celery with pineapple cream cheese and pecans (I know, but it's so good!). The Boyfriend and his family also have their own set of traditions which I have been lucky to take part in over the last three years. But since he and I have big plans to get married and start a family of our own, we decided it was time to have a tradition that was just for us.

We are now adding one new ornament to our tree every year that represents something important to us about that year. Last year was our first with this tradition so we chose an ornament with our initials. This year, we picked something up in Disneyland when we were there celebrating his grandparents' 65th wedding anniversary. While we still take part in our separate family traditions, it's nice to know that we have something all our own. I can't wait to share these ornaments with our kids someday and retell the stories each one represents.

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What a wonderful budding tradition, Stephanie! Meaningful ornaments are the best and such a great way to keep your history and love at the core of your Christmas tree. Thank you so much for sharing with us! Merry Christmas to you, your boyfriend and your families!

Little Miss Random

2011-12-17T09:00:00.000-06:00

~My manager and I often chat about makeup and beauty products. (She's the coolest!) She has been singing the praises of Urban Decay's eyeshadow primer for a while now, and I finally broke down and bought a tube a few days ago. Oh. My. Gosh. How have I gone this long without it? This lovely potion makes blending a cinch and keeps sketchy creasing at bay. (I apply my makeup around 6:00am every morning, so by lunch I'd have a whole lotta hot mess going on in my eye area. This is a huge development, people!)

~This. Just go to there. Big thanks to Brittney over at La Midge for Tweeting the link and for the subsequent giggles that ensued.

~Why is it that I end up with flecks of glitter all over my face and hands every single day this time of year? Where is it coming from?? I'm like an uber confused sparkle fairy up in here! Not a good look for me.

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~Throughout next week, I will be featuring guest posts from a few of my favorite bloggers! I have asked them to share with y'all their favorite Christmas tradition(s). In the midst of all the hoopla and spending, it's important to reflect on the moments that make the season truly special. (If you'd like to participate, please email or Tweet me and I'll send you the details! The more the merrier!)

Friday, I'm in Love, v.11

2011-12-16T08:57:00.000-06:00

It's Friday and I'm in love with...

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Casual Fridays in the office are all the sweeter when it's cool enough to throw on a cuddly fleece pullover. I feel like I'm working in pajamas, especially with one hand cupped around my still-warm coffee mug. Mmmmm.

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It wasn't until M shared an invite to a friend's Christmas party this weekend that I remembered how excited I got about these soirees. If I ~~wasn't so lame~~ had a bigger place, I'd throw quite the fete for my wonderful friends. But in the meantime, I will nom on our gracious host's snacks and enjoy the shared merriment. (What am I going to wear?!)

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Sleep can, at times, be an allusive mistress for this gal. When I find myself restless at bedtime, my Sleep Machine app saves me from puffy eyes and the need for a coffee IV drip the next morning. I've had various versions of a rain sound machine on my nightstand over the years, and the soothing sounds of falling rain lulls me right into miemies.

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My cousin Heather makes these yummy holiday pretzel treats every year for our Christmas Eve gathering, and I look so forward to them. (And the company, of course!) They're pretzel windows topped with Kisses or Hugs, baked for a moment in the oven, then crowned with Christmas-colored M&Ms. Nom!

Happy weekend, y'all!

Ask and Ye Shall Receive

2011-12-14T15:52:00.000-06:00

This week has been a wee bit crazypants. Long story short: systems and shiz went haywire, CEO got mad, manager was in tears, I couldn't eat I was so anxious (that's serious business for this little piggy), etc., etc., etc. The details aren't important. (Nor is the fact that this week is only half over. Uf.)

However...

I was wisely reminded to take a moment in the midst of the madness to find a quiet place and take my stress and worries to the Lord. I prayed. I prayed real good. I have not historically been the type to pray for specific, practical needs, but I've been lovingly reminded that such matters are never too small for God.

I prayed that he would guide my words, guide my hands, quiet my head, calm my tummy, and bolster my confidence to deliver on what I've been called to do following the meltdown in the office. I also prayed that he would hold close and grant the same provision for my team. And He did. All of the above.

I am still juggling many things right now and working harder than I have in the past three months in this position. But I am thankful for that, encouraged by that and feel more peaceful than I imagined I could given the circumstances. (Impromptu private demo for our new CEO? No sweat...apparently.) (OK, a little sweat. But I think that's the silk cardigan.)

Remember: nothing is too small. He so wants to be part of your day-to-day, and it pleases Him so to welcome such intimacy in your life during the good, the bad and the ugly. (Philippians 4:6-7)

I hope y'all are having great weeks thus far! Take things a moment at a time and know you're never alone.

These Are a Few of my Favorite Things...

2011-12-13T09:11:00.000-06:00

As much as I adore raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens (and I do!), my taste is generally a bit more pricey and a lot more sentimental. Rather than putting together a wish list this year, I am ruminating on the items already in my possession that still make me feel like it's Christmas morning every time I play with them!

Say what you will about luxury brands, but it means something to me to be able to own a few special pieces from the labels I've adored from afar for many years. I know that my identity is not tied to what brands I wear, and I've never gone into debt over luxury items. I don't take for granted the indulgence of slipping my Burberry cashmere scarf around my neck, or pulling out my LV Zippy Organizer on a daily basis. These items are practical and beautiful, and though I use them regularly (rather than keeping them in a hermetically sealed chamber, for example), I take care of my things so that they last and can be passed on to my super sassy daughter (or nieces, if God graces me with little dudes).

I have probably purchased a dozen bottles of Essie's Ballet Slippers over the years. When it comes to my fair fingers and toes, there is no more perfect color than this. And the image this shade calls to mind makes this former ballerina want to pirouette. Something else that makes me dancey? My cocoa n.a.p. Cuddle Blanket. I keep this super soft blankie folded over my couch, and I'm pretty sure it gets some good cuddles every single day.

Some of my favorite decor pieces are those that have been gifted to me by my terribly cool friends. One of my besties brought me back a beautiful jade owl (with a smaller owl nested within it's intricately carved body) from her honeymoon in Jamaica. This little guy lives in a nesting box in my room, and I think of Aliss every time I see it. I have memories like this scattered all over my apartment, which is one of the reasons I think I love being at home so much. It is littered with love and tokens from my dear friends.

Blah, blah, blah, diamonds are a girl's best friend. I don't like shiny baubles just for the sake of pretty shiny. (Well, OK, maybe a wee bit.) But among my favorite items within my jewelery box are my mom's pearl earrings and the diamond ring she bought for me when I turned 21. She wore those earrings when she married my dad, and I just love the simple elegance of them. I absolutely adore her wedding ring from Pops, but that's not for playing with just yet. Jewelery is special and timeless, but it is the memories attached to those pieces that make them absolutely priceless.

What are some of your favorite things?

Movie response: Hugo

2011-12-12T11:19:00.000-06:00

Among the celebrations this past weekend for M's birthday, we visited the theater to see a film of his choosing: Hugo in 3D. I didn't have many expectations (save for the given awesomeness of Scorsese) because I had a hard time ascertaining from the previews what the film was about (which, I would guess, is what endeared my honey to this film, as he typically covers his ears and shuts his eyes during previews so as not to have a film ruined by over-informative promos). The Invention of Hugo Cabret, the Brian Selznick book upon which the film is based, tragically never made it onto my radar, and so I was completely open to the element of surprise.

And surprised I was. Delighted, really.

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Not wanting to give too much away for those of you also unfamiliar with this tale of historical-fiction, I will simply say that there are so many elements of this film to adore. I truly think you'd be hard pressed to find a viewer who isn't at least amused by the story, if not fantastically charmed as I was.

The historical background of this film centers on the life and works of filmmaker Georges Melies, played by Sir Ben Kingsley. (While watching the actual clips of Melies's films featured in Hugo, you may recall the Smashing Pumpkins' video for "Tonight, Tonight," which was shot as a stylistic homage to Melies. Bonus cool points.) The enchanting visuals typified by Melies's work were skillfully mirrored by Scorsese, creating a world that waltzes between adventures of fantasy and the cold obdurate reality of our characters, the journey between serving as the emotional heart of the film.

Set in 1930s Paris, the city is a character of its own right. (And we all know how much I love Paris.) The melding of classic Parisian icons with an ever-present, elegant clock motif and mysterious mechanical man had me grinning from ear to ear...even in the midst of tears. Visually, this is the stuff that really knocks my socks off.

Actor performances were great. I especially adored Sacha Baron Cohen as Inspector Gustav; awkward and humorous are clearly his forte, which served the role very well. Asa Butterfield's performance as the title-character was quite impressive. Those blue eyes? Forget about it.

Hugo is a visual feast and I left the theater feeling absolutely enchanted. If you're in the mood for a proper adventure, get thee to the theater and take in this whimsical treat.

Friday, I'm in Love, v.10

2011-12-09T10:15:00.000-06:00

It's Friday and I'm in love with...

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I was never really the touchy-feely type, but having spent the last year with someone who considers physical touch one of his top Love Languages, I've learned that a simple touch from another human (be it a hug, holding hands, a kiss on the cheek) can make you feel so loved and connected (a rarity in the age of uber autonomy). I'm a full-blown hugger these days. (You've been warned.)

Hello Kitty + Christmas = awesomeness. I have an affinity for all things Hello Kitty, so this adorable ornament is right up my alley. Especially with her sassy pirate ensemble, though it looks more Alice in Wonderland to me (which is even more rad).

Perhaps I'm still sad face over the loss of dear Cowboy, but I am an absolute sucker for puppy eyes these days. M's pup Isabel was working the eyes big time last night, reminding me how innocent and in need of love are these furry kiddos. Their little expressions are priceless.

Today is a very special day in my world. My honey was born on this day (a handful of year ago, of course). I am so thankful that God created such a lovely man from two wonderful parents. Happy birthday, baby.

Happy weekend, y'all!

Winter Beauty Must-Haves

2011-12-07T14:20:00.000-06:00

I'm the kind of gal who follows the exact same routine every morning. If I deviate at all, I am likely to forget a crucial step. Like deodorant. Or socks. I go into morning auto-pilot, and I prefer using the same beauty products day after day. Not just because I'm a loyal consumer like that (which I can be if I've got the funds), but because I know exactly how long it will take me to apply that sunscreen, that foundation, those eyeshadows, etc.

Thankfully, my skin is pretty temperate and I don't have to change my regimen much based on season. But when the temp drops, I do take on a few extra steps and switch out some of my staples to better prepare myself for making it through the winter without turning into a dry hot mess.

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La Roche-Posay Anthelios SX SPF 15. Yes, you still need sunscreen if it's overcast and rainy. This moisturizing sunscreen doesn't smell, doesn't turn my face into an oil slick and has legit ingredients to truly protect your skin.

Clarisonic. These babies should be handed out to everyone with a face. Not only does using this system deliver a polished, clean feel, but it actually stimulates cell turnover for younger, healthy skin. (This also does wonders on those crusty chapped lips.)

NARS blush in Orgasm. There's a reason that this product shows up on everyone's must-have lists. The color is so flattering and gives a slight dewy look (sans disco glitter), which is perfect for livening up the drab skin that accompanies winter.

MAC eyeshadow in Amber Lights. Festive and classic, this shade compliments many eye shades and brightens up your whole face. Perfect for the office or holiday parties galore.

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Bobbi Brown face powder in Pale Yellow. Probably not the best choice for you tan gals, but this powder's yellow hue is perfect for counteracting the red, irritated appearance of fair skin when it's dry and sad. Works perfectly over my foundation (Bobbi Brown's Moisture Rich Foundation) and doesn't leave me cakey or looking like I have jaundice (despite the color of the product).

Burt's Bees lip balm. I could bathe in this stuff. But I won't. Dry, chapped lips? Not a good look.

Epionce Renewal Facial Lotion. I could also bathe in this stuff. This moisturizer is rich enough to quench my skin for the season, but light enough to wear under makeup (before sunscreen, of course) if I desire. It is designed to combat irritation and calm the skin, while fortifying for younger, supple appearance.

Nivea Creme. I keep this luscious salve on my nightstand. Always a favorite stocking stuffer, a tub of this lotion lasts for months, smells lovely and keeps my hands hydrated like woah.

Bed Head After Party. The packaging may raise a few eyebrows so I'd stow this hair smoothing lotion in a cabinet. But nothing tames the winter flyaways better than this stuff. It keeps your tresses shiny and sleek without the stiffness of some other anti-static products.

This is just tip of the iceberg of my usual routine, but these are my faves so I had to share them with y'all.

What are your must-have products this time of year?

P.S. No one paid or compensated me in any way for saying this stuff. This is my honest opinion.

It's a Flats Day, Y'all

2011-12-06T12:01:00.000-06:00

I don't look nearly this cute at the office, but humor me.
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Life at the office has been refreshingly busy this week thus far, but I wanted to pop by for a quick hello! I'm getting behind on reading all your lovely posts, which is especially no bueno since this season has inspired one beautiful post after another. But I will catch up soon, probably while cuddled up at home and enjoying a cup of coffee. Mmmm. Bring it!

I've shared with y'all that I'm in the process of upping my style game at the office, and I've actually done pretty well on making an effort as of late. However, I relish days like today when I can rock the chinos and a simple sweater with my favorite casual scarf. Not to mention, my feet could use a break from high heels. I do concede that they work magic on my legs, but scuttling about the office is much easier in flats.

And, well, there's the matter of skill.

In my head, here's what I look like walking in heels...

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In reality...

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Not a good look. But I'll keep working on it. I am planning on braving high heels this weekend for a night on the town to celebrate M's birthday. I may even wear dangly earrings. Look out!

(Send Band-Aids.)

Friday, I'm in Love, v.9

2011-12-02T07:56:00.000-06:00

It's Friday and I'm in love with...

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I have never really been all that big on cinnamon (the flavor or the scent). But ever since curiously witnessing M couple cinnamon and coffee, I have been hooked on this comforting combo. My Taste of Austin blend just isn't the same without it.

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Without getting too personal or heavy on this Friday post, I will simply state that my dad and I are finally, as adults, really forging a proper relationship. I hadn't spoken to him in the last two months, for no particular reason, and I finally dropped my stubborn pride and sought him out yesterday. It was so nice to just pick up where we left off and not have to hash out and whine and pout. I'm so thankful for grace. Whether you're giving or receiving this gift, it's absolutely beautiful.

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The last few days in North Texas have been overcast and cooler, weather that absolutely begs for a nice evening fire. I'm still pretty clueless when it comes to building one (apparently not everything that can burn should be used as kindling...now you know), so M takes care of business while I cuddle up in jammies and stare mesmerized at the flames.

What's keeping you cozy this week, dear readers?

[Inspired Thursdays, v.6] This Booty Isn't Going to Walk Itself

2011-12-01T07:57:00.000-06:00

I like to eat. I like to eat a lot. I like to eat a lot of yummy (read: naughty) food.

The problem? I'm have been pretty undisciplined as of late when it comes to working off said yummy/naughty eats. It's one thing to enjoy food and maintain a balance of healthy sustenance and indulgent happiness, but the scales have tipped (literally) when clothes are tight, skin is dull, energy is low and you can't remember the last time you had three meals in a row with lots of vegetables.

Many of us know this cycle all too well, so I won't belabor y'all with my whining. (Mostly because this is completely within my control and I've simply been lazypants.)

However, I am thankful to report that I finally mustered the decisiveness to hop back on that treadmill. I have gone back and forth with exercise for most of my life, and since moving from a very active, health-conscious town like Austin, I have chosen to spend most evenings comfortably lazing on the couch, wondering why my pajama pants are the only clothes I love anymore. (A travesty given my wardrobe is quite nice in my estimation.) The attitudes that creep in when you don't feel healthy (which is not necessarily the same thing as overweight) are the worst and can be quite debilitating.

I am definitely the type who gets super amped about working out, stocking up on running pants and fueling up on good protein and water throughout the day, then fizzles out a month in and plants myself on the well-worn couch with a bag of Flaming Hot Cheetos. But I choose to focus on the starting again. Over and over.

True, my zeal may not last forever. But I will feel better, look better and behave better if I at least keep at it. I saw a quote somewhere (probably Pinterest, nerd) that said, "The hardest step for a runner is the first one out of the front door." True story.

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One of these days my silly self will fully appreciate the many benefits of maintaining an active, healthy lifestyle (not just in theory, but in practice), each time incorporating a few more positive behaviors into my core. Some can make a decision overnight and stick to it. But I know I am of the flaky variety, and so the inch-by-inch approach works for me. You have to do what works for you, but relish in the high of a nice sweat sesh or treating your body right with proper nutrition for a few days. If you can, you should.

What are your favorite ways to stay active and healthy?

Day Planner: Paper vs. Electronic

2011-11-30T12:07:00.000-06:00

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I'm a wee bit on the Monica Geller side when it comes to planning and organization. I fully admit it. Especially as I get a bit older and am not nearly as sharp about remembering things as I used to be, my day planner is an asset to my life. (I can't remember birthdays to save my life, but I sure do recall the five uber random things I need from the grocery store. Thank you, highly-selective photographic memory.)

And yes, I said day planner. I have tried to make the switch to electronic, I really have. But even with my spiffy iPhone, I just can't get on board with e-calendars. I like having everything written out and being able to look at my life by week or month as I so desire, as well as review past events and dates. (I know that electronic versions do this too, but it's not in my handwriting. Ergo, lies.)

Plus, day planners are pretty!

Exhibit A: {ELEGANTLY COMPACT}

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Exhibit B: {GLAM MEETS RUSTIC}

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Exhibit C: {COME TO NATTY}

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These are just too lovely to forsake, no? I personally like to keep my planners on my bookshelf for a few years because they can function as a journal when I'm not keeping a separate diary or blogging often. It's a great tool for recalling timelines or tracking special moments.

(Nerd confession: I've notated many relationship landmarks for M and I in my date book. Laugh now, but you just try nailing down an anniversary date for a romance that started out friendly and you'll be whistling a different tune.)

(Where do they come up with these sayings? And why do I use them?!)

My day planner must-haves:

~Weekly view.

~Lined pages with enough room per day for multiple detailed entries.

~Must be compact enough to fit in my LV mini looping, even if I usually carry a more spacious satchel.

~A ribbon or tab for marking the current week.

~For the love, no pre-printed time slots.

An old-fashioned gal, I most definitely am at times. Much as I'm not a fan of e-readers, I'm not a fan of e-calendars. I simply cannot give up tickling the gilt edges of the pages and scrawling engagements with my Zebra F-301 (best. pen. ever.).

But that's just me.

Puppy Love

2011-11-28T19:35:00.001-06:00

My dear friends called yesterday to inform me that their sweet pup, Cowboy, had passed away suddenly while playing outside. This dog was something else, let me tell you. He was born on my birthday, so you know he's a special kind of awesome. I spent a good amount of time with him while he was young, staying over to care for him while his folks travelled and snuggling up on the couch when he'd stay still long enough. His personality was one-of-a-kind. And his ears...a true Cow' signature.

Dogs are such wonderful friends and God designed them to so intuitively understand man unlike any other creature. They love unconditionally, despite our moods, frustrations and selfishness at times. Just try to feel down when you see those sweet big eyes and that wagging tail come your way!

Love on your furry babies, folks. Even when they're being all kinds of naughty and driving you up the wall. You'll probably miss those crazy moments the most when they're gone.

R.I.P. Cowboy
1/11/2011 - 11/27/2011

Friday, I'm in Love, v.8 {Gift Giving Edition}

2011-11-25T06:00:00.000-06:00

It's Friday and I'm in love with...

Gift giving!

'Tis the season, y'all, so for this post-Thanksgiving installment of Friday, I'm in Love, I'd like to spotlight my favorite gifts for friends and family. There are endless possibilities for each item, so consider thoughtfully your recipient and you'll be sure to put a smile on their face and a warm fuzzy in their heart.

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Warm beverages feel extra special when sipped from pretty mugs. (The collections at Anthro make me dancey.) Monograms up the adorbs factor and are a great way to honor your recipient.

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Eat, drink and be merry by passing along a lovely bottle of wine to dear friends. There are many varieties and tastes when it comes to wine, but I think it's safe to say that reds (merlot, cab, malbec if you're feeling frisky) are generally well-received. And when in doubt, break out the bubbly.

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If you like the idea of gifting something wearable but don't want to fuss with size and fit, presenting a great accessory is one-size-fits-all. Timeless scarves are a great way to please the fashion-conscious in your life, and they're practical to boot! (Tip: if your recipient resides in a warmer region, you can still spice up their scarf drawer by opting for a lighter, year-round-friendly material like knit or rayon.)

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Scented candles are such a simple way to create warmth in a home, room, office, etc., and given the pretty tin and glass holders candles reside in these days, they're totally bow-worthy! (Tip: mellow peeps may appreciate lavender or lilac, while more bold folks may enjoy currant or jasmine scents. And for those who share scent space with fellas, outdoorsy scents are good, though I have found that guys also like baked-goods-inspired scents. The way to their hearts...)

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There is still time to order monogrammed hand towels for your favorite host/hostess. Even with the customization, you don't have to spend a fortune as even a single towel is an appreciative nod to the hospitality of your recipient. (Tip: if you aren't sure of the color scheme of their kitchen, powder room, etc., go for neutral, elegant shades like crisp white, beige, slate blue or natural linen.)

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Prettily packaged for presentation, blank letterpress note card sets are always nice to have around. These throwback tokens of elegance beg for a special message, penned by hand, and ensure the smile-inspiring love will be passed along long after your gift is unwrapped and hugs are exchanged.

What are your favorite items to gift to loved ones? Any special finds this year while braving the madness of Black Friday? (Oh, be safe out there today, y'all!)

Thanks.

2011-11-24T07:00:00.000-06:00

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Happy Thanksgiving, dear readers. Whatever your plans or whoever your company may be, I wish you a day of blessings and joy.

Home Sweet Office

2011-11-22T08:22:00.001-06:00

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Because I work in IT, I sometimes get a little bent out of shape that I can't work from home. It just seems silly to report to an office to sit in front of a computer. I can do that from home, yo. But then, I consider...

I am currently sitting at my desk, still wrapped up in my wool scarf from the 6:45AM commute, with a blanket over my legs, fuzzy gray slippers on my feet, and a warm cup of French vanilla coffee in my favorite Starbucks mug from Ma in my hand.

Remind me again: how is this different fom what I'd be doing at home?

Happy Tuesday, y'all!

Follow the Leader

2011-11-21T12:34:00.001-06:00

Growing up, nothing could get me riled up more quickly than someone (wisely) advising me to reconsider my fierce independence (-slash-borderline-man-hating). I was raised by a super strong mama and a not-so-involved dad, and gathered from the feminist literature in which I immersed myself that to be intelligent and successful, I needed to embrace being single or at least ensure I was wearing the proverbial pants.

Oh, Natty. ((Pats teenage self on the head.))

I am not, for the record, blaming feminist literature nor my parents for these beliefs. Rather, I wish I had recognized and sought godly women to teach me what it meant to be a stand-up gal and how to look for an equally-stand-up guy. I was going at it blindly and making all the wrong assumptions. But I don't think this is unique to my nuclear family. How many of us find ourselves without a paradigm, without a "good" example of a positive, healthy, loving relationship to emulate (or at least think we are without such an example because of pre-conceived notions of what this should look like)? We're a very unique generation, certain that our parents were wrong, yet ingrained with many of the same attitudes that resulted in whatever dysfunction we know of as "marriage."

Thankfully, my heart and my head have been shaped to understand the marriage relationship in a completely different way than I ever before considered. During an 8-week seminary course (a Titus 2 study) at a phenomenal church I attended while living in Austin, I learned more about what it really means to be a woman--and what that means to my relationships--than I had in 29 years of barging my way through what I assumed was true womanhood. (I come from a nuclear family that positively associates loudness with rightness.)

For the first time, I understood the importance of seeking a godly man, and am now experiencing the absolute joy of partnering with such a fella. Truth, it's not always rainbows and sunshine, and I'm going to be challenged. But I don't expect nor want it to be "Yes, dear" all the live long day. I want to be led and know that I must be trusting and willing to follow in order to facilitate leadership. There's just no way around it. I want to change and grow, and that certainly doesn't always happen gracefully. (I won't even tell you how ugly was the process that got me to this point, but let's just say the levels of hot mess have been epic and sad.)

My journey of growth and understanding are far from over. (Thank you, God!) But I am so thankful to have made enough headway to appreciate the leadership qualities in my honey and to respond accordingly to such love and conviction. I can't wait to see where God leads us next!

Saturday in a nut shell...

2011-11-19T14:20:00.001-06:00

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~Construction on my apartment building circa 8AM

~Warm morning shower

~Espresso and parmesan sourdough toast

~Food Network and HGTV

~Thanksgiving shopping list and game plan

~My very first baking dish!

~Flannel, jeans and Converse

~Afternoon nap

Friday, I'm in Love, v.7

2011-11-18T09:57:00.001-06:00

It's Friday and I'm in love with...

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Dashing any chance of looking hawt in my comfies, giant fuzzy socks are on my feet on a regular basis these days. I never actually buy these, but they typically show up in my Christmas stocking and I am elated. They're so comforting and make me feel like a little kid. Get you some.

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Ever since my success with the lentil taco recipe, I've been positively enchanted by this legume. I nommed some of the excess lentils that had only been boiled in water--no salt, no pepper, nothin'--and they were fantastic. They're full of iron and protein, keep well and don't require soaking. Lentil soup has been such a comfort food for me ever since my college roomie's Greek mama introduced me to it, and I'm so excited to explore other recipes and uses for lentils.

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As I obsess about proper recipes to contribute (finally) to the Thanksgiving meal this year, the Epicurious app has been more helpful that you can shake a stick at. Most of the recipes have photos, and all of them have reviews, which I love reading for substitution ideas and real-life expectations. ("This dish took 4 hours to make and used all of my pans. But yum!" Yeeeeah, I'll pass.)

Wishing y'all a great weekend and a lovely week ahead as you prepare for Thanksgiving. Remember: things will go wrong, there will be spills, there will be naps...so embrace the hoopla and don't forget to take some time for true, prayerful thanksgiving.

...Oh, and hug your host/hostess! They work hard, y'all!

[Inspired Thursdays, v.5] Sing a Joyful Song

2011-11-17T12:50:00.001-06:00

I have been a closet songstress for years now. I love singing. I sing in the car, in the shower, on the treadmill (at home)...and I mean belting it out, y'all. But I don't ever let people hear me sing. If I'm in the car with someone and my jam comes on the radio, I turn my head toward the window and baby sing it out. I just gotta, but on the low-low.

Church was no exception. I stood up, crossed my arms in discomfort, and moved my mouth while keeping my eyes firmly affixed to the hymn book or screen to catch the lyrics. We grew up attending a conservative Southern California church, so worship wasn't exactly the jazzy, jovial expression more commonly seen in churches these days anyway. But I was not having the singing. I dreaded worship time and sometimes even hoped we would miss that part of service (which we often did thanks to Dad and his two-hour morning showers). It's terrible to have felt that way, and it saddens me that I didn't understand the blessing of praising God by lifting up our voices.

Now? I sing like I can! (I like to imagine that I secretly have a voice like Idina's, but no one will ever know.) (I don't. And they won't.) Once I started listening to contemporary Christian music in my car, I found that I actually knew the songs they were playing in church. (Shocking, I know.) I didn't even have to look at the screen! I figured it wasn't all that much different from singing in the car to these songs, and before I knew it, I found myself looking so forward to Sundays and singing with fellow believers. It wasn't just that I was singing, but that I finally understood that God planted this love in my heart, and his church inspired me to embrace it, both on Sundays and everyday. Just in time for Christmas, too. Who wants to go caroling?!

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I may sound like a pack-of-cigs-smokin'-a-day kitty when I let it out, but I am filled with joy to know that at least one listener digs my vocal stylings. And He's the most important critic, anyway.

Red Lips in the Workplace? (Gasp!) Why I never...

2011-11-16T07:32:00.001-06:00

While I think it's important to reign in bold makeup for daytime looks (unless, of course, you work at MAC...in which case, hook a sister up!), I am absolutely loving a bright red lip with my work ensembles. But there are a few simple guidelines to keep it fresh and flirty, versus looking like you have another occupation in the evening...

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1. Go for a brighter shade that is almost in the orange family (versus a dark red with purple or blue undertones). Think Sienna Miller. (Heart her!) I'm loving MAC's lip pencil in Brick. It's so flattering and gives a lot of control in the application because it's a pencil.

2. Don't forget the corners. When you open your mouth, you don't want to look like a painted up clown. Your whole mouth should look cherry stained, so don't skimp on the coverage. (If you're worried about getting it on your teeth, you can execute the ol' finger pull. But using a lip liner to cover these areas should take care of business.)

3. Once you've applied, kiss a tissue. This will keep you from getting lipstick all over the place, as well as subdue it a bit. (I also swear by holding a tissue over my lips and dabbing over it with some face powder or blush on a brush if I'm worried about it smearing.) This color tends to tint lips for a while, so embrace the various stages of wear with red. It's more low-fuss than most think.

4. If your outfit or occasion calls for a darker eye, forgo the red lips with that look. Don't overdo it. IMO, the best pairing with red lips is soft pink cheeks and a neutral eye with a few coats of mascara. Keep everything matte and clean. In the words of Paul "Koonu" Rudd in Forgetting Sarah Marshall, "Do less."

5. Make sure your lips are hydrated. This look goes from hot to hot mess really quickly if you've got parched mouth. After you brush your teeth in the morning, immediately apply some lip balm. By the time you're ready to go for the red, they'll be softer and look lovely.

6. Own it! If you don't feel confident in this look, don't do it. That goes for everything, really. Be you!

Recipe: Delicioso Vegetarian Tacos

2011-11-15T09:05:00.001-06:00

M and I have been searching for healthy new recipes to try that don't rely so heavily on my staples: carbs, carbs and more carbs. Oh, and cheese. (Worst vegetarian ever.)

My favorite vegan recommended I check out Appetitie for Reduction by the girl genius behind Post Punk Kitchen. (Appetite for Reduction and Veganomicon are now on their way to my mailbox courtesy of Amazon. Holla.) Vegetarian cooking can become very blah and unhealthy if you aren't careful, and I have definitely failed to check myself in this respect. Don't get my wrong: I generally walk away from the table quite pleased and stuffed out of my mind. But one of the main reasons I stick to a veggie diet is because I understand the health benefits when done right.

I was elated with the results of my experiment last night in tackling a new recipe using an ingredient I've never before played with: lentils. I was inspired by PPK's Ancho Lentil Taco recipe to create a fresh, healthy dish that made me say, "Nom" and "Ahh" at the same time.

Delicioso Vegetarian Tacos

Filling ingredients:
1.5 cups dry green lentils, rinsed and drained
1 medium onion, minced
3 cloves garlic, minced
1 packet organic taco seasoning
2 tbsp olive oil
3 tbsp tomato paste

Directions:
1.) Boil 2 parts water to your lentils (I started with 3 cups of water here) in a sauce pan over med-high heat, then add rinsed lentils to boiling water. (DO NOT ADD SALT. I know it's tempting, but I read everywhere that salt will make your lentils tough, and I assure you, good lentils don't need much of it anyway.) Boil lentils for about 3 minutes to aid in digestion. (I saw this tip online and it seemed to work.)
2.) Reduce to a simmer and cook covered for approx. 20 minutes, checking a few times to ensure water level has not fallen below lentils. (If it does, just add some more hot water to cover.)
3.) Once lentils are softened, remove from heat and drain liquid. At this point, you can add a little sea salt if you so desire.
4.) In a saute pan, warm olive oil over medium heat. Add onions and garlic, cooking for about 3 minutes until softened. (I also added a few pinches of crushed red pepper flakes because I heart them.)
5.) Add taco seasoning mix to onions and garlic and stir for about 30 seconds to roast.
6.) Stir in lentils and tomato paste, adding a few splashes of water as needed to keep the mix from getting dry. Smash the lentils with a fork for about 5 minutes (as though you're making mashed potatoes) to get a thicker and more meaty consistency.

I served my seasoned lentils on warmed corn tortillas with a garnish plate of chopped tomatoes, chives, cilantro (this is a must!), cubed avocado, lime wedges and Tofutti Better than Sour Cream. I also set out a plate with some Austin salsa and Hint of Lime tortilla chips, which complimented the dish nicely.

This was delicious, y'all! M loved it as well (and I don't think he was just being nice). Next time I'll probably add some hot sauce to the mix (which the original recipe wisely called for, but I wussed out) and maybe minced jalapenos for garnish to spice it up a bit. This yielded more than enough for two people, but I'm glad to have leftovers to make nachos on the fly or throw over some greens for a hearty taco salad.

Happy cookin'!

Congrats!

2011-11-14T07:28:00.001-06:00

Thank you to all of you who participated in my Shabby Apple giveaway. Without further ado, the winner is...Alissa!

You will be contacted by someone from Shabby Apple and The Duchess will be on her way to you shortly!

I have a proper post brewing in my head (and heart), but it needs more time to percolate me thinks. In the meantime, y'all have a wonderful Monday and let this be the beginning of a meaningful week.

Friday, I'm in Love, v.6

2011-11-11T06:30:00.000-06:00

It's Friday and I'm in love with...

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Candles are an indulgence that I often talk myself out of because I don't need them. But I recently splurged and bought a wood wick candle that subtly crackles when it's lit. I must say, it's just not home without that baby going. (Target sells a brand called Nature's Wick. I insist you pick one up in the Bonfire Nights scent. It's wonderful!)

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I wouldn't call if baby fever, per se. But M's sister welcomed a daughter into the world last week, and holding that precious little lady in my arms just made me melt. I couldn't stop staring at her, which just isn't polite. That sweet baby scent and feeling those itty bitty hands wrapped around mine...so good for the soul.

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Fruit is a special kind of wonderful in general. Apples, in particular, are like nature's treat. They're portable, sweet, crunchy and pretty to boot! I generally have at least two in my drawer at work for afternoon snack time. Nom!

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I'm not a big necklace person, but I've been wearing my long bronze skeleton key necklace nearly every day this week. Draped over a turtleneck, peeking out from underneath a scarf, or cozy among a cardigan, this accessory is perfect for fall and seems to work with whatever metals I am wearing elsewhere.

Speaking of awesome neck wear, have you entered my giveaway? 'Cause you should.

Happy Friday, y'all! Thank you for all the love and support.

[Inspired Thursdays, v.4] Be a Lady

2011-11-10T08:48:00.001-06:00

Over the past year, I have really started to embrace femininity. This is not to say that I am a recovering tomboy; I've just never really considered myself a girly girl (primarily because I thought that meant I was somehow sacrificing an intellectual identity, in so far as that encompasses an identity either). But now...there aren't enough ruffled pillows or lilac scented candles to be found! I think being in love has something to do with it, as well as approaching my 30s and leaving many insecurities behind to learn, in a real way, what it means to be a woman. (That, of course, is not typified by pretty pillows and sassy dresses, but I'm not trying to get too analytical here before breakfast.)

Classy ladies are getting rarer these days, so I find myself emulating traditionally feminine behaviors and loving every second of it...

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I enjoy taking the time to prepare for a proper night out. Not every evening with my honey is going to be candlelight and cocktails. But when it is, taking a few hours to pull out all the stops (sugar scrub, illuminating face powder, fresh coat of Ballet Slippers) makes the wide-eyed, look-you-up-and-down moment all the sweeter. I long for a plush vanity with perfect lighting, but for now, I'll settle for sitting on the bathroom counter with The Devil Wears Prada playing in the background.

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Pink cheeks and black liquid liner have been paired together for ages, and there's a reason for that: it's perfection.

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I admittedly have a mondo girl crush on Joy Williams of The Civil Wars. (If you don't know who I am talking about, I urge you to remedy that STAT.) Her rotating wardrobe of flirty-yet-tasteful black, A-line dresses is swoon-worthy. I used to reserve dresses for super special occasions, but I've learned that any day can be a dress day. And let's be honest: when I'm wearing one, I do feel pretty, especially if it's lace or satin. Adds a little skip to my step. (Gotta watch that when rockin' heels, though.)

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I finally discovered my signature scent last year. Though I walk through a gentle mist of it daily, I save the hearty sprays for when I'm with my man. It is well known that smell has an incredibly powerful impact on memory, and there's not much sexier than smelling your beloved on you after they've gone. A spritz on the pillowcases is a classic, girly trick that still makes me feel like I should own a velvet fainting couch on which to swoon.

I love being a woman...labor pains, PMS, leg shaving and all.

Ladies, what is your favorite feminine indulgence? Gents, what are your favorite signatures of a woman?

There's still time to enter the Shabby Apple giveaway!

Nesting: A Touch of Whimsy

2011-11-09T08:07:00.000-06:00

As I cultivate a living space to (hopefully) exude warmth and comfort, I think it goes a long way to incorporate an element of whimsy into a room. This doesn't mean dust-catching clutter (unless that is what you're into, of course), but a quirky moment among otherwise elegant pieces is like a little treat, a nestled away treasure just waiting for someone to notice and smile.

Check out that sassy lil' owl on the right!
Photo: apartmenttherapy.com

For example, I keep my desk maintained (decor-wise) as though it is simply another piece of furniture. (Granted, I sort of have to given that it's in the dining room of my apartment. But still.) There are your usual workspace accouterments: laptop, pen cup (I use a repurposed Archipelago candle box), herringbone note pad, stapler, etc., as well as proper desk adornments, like a framed photo and a vase holding the dried bouquet from my mother's wedding. And in the midst of all that coordinated, mostly-practical stuff...

Oh yeah. That's a Peep. This little guy was a gift from my brother, and every time I spot this yellow mug peeking out between the shelves, I can't help but grin. And perhaps say, "Hi, Peep!" Maybe.

For this reason, I've been creating vignettes throughout the apartment that feature a scrappy little nod to an inside joke or a sweet something that makes me smile. I've long been a fan of well-designed vignettes, and while it will be a bit still before I have a proper home in which to let loose, I will continue to collect curious treasures to one day hide among the nooks.

Are there any whimsical pieces in your home (or on your wish list) that you simply adore?

Don't forget to enter my giveaway for the lovely necklace from Shabby Apple!

Giveaway: SHABBY APPLE

2011-11-08T12:18:00.001-06:00

I am positively giddy to share with y'all my very first giveaway, courtesy of Shabby Apple!

This beautiful online boutique is right up my alley, featuring dresses, apparel and accessories that are classy, timeless and uber fashionable. They cater to all ladies who want to look feminine and are comfortable in their own skin (while not bearing it all). Natty likey!

The prize? This gorgeous necklace:

Shabby Apple's "The Duchess"

I had my eye on this piece when I first stumbled upon Shabby Apple a few months ago, so when I got the chance to select this piece for Use Your Words, Little Girl readers, I jumped on it! (And did a little happy dance. True story.) Y'all know how much I love silhouettes, and cameos capture that same classic, iconic feel while looking tres elegant when worn every day. I think it would look stunning nestled between the lapels of a chunky belted sweater with a messy, teased bun, or front and center of a simple gray sheath with a camel cardigan and ponytail.

Ok, enough jibber jabber, Nat. Here's how you can play...

ENTRY RULES:

Due to Shabby Apple's shipping policies, this giveaway is open to readers within the U.S. only.

To be eligible for this giveaway, you must "like" Shabby Apple on Facebook.

For additional entries, you may also:
~Follow Shabby Apple on Twitter
~Follow me on Twitter
~Post a link to this giveaway on your blog
~Follow Use Your Words, Little Girl (new followers only, please)

Leave a separate comment for each entry option y'all complete, and be sure to include your email in the comment field so I can follow up if you win.

Entries must be completed by Sunday, November 13th at 11:59 CST. The winner will be chosen by Random.org and announced on Monday, November 14th.

Best of luck, dear readers!

The Allure of the Inner Circle

2011-11-07T14:30:00.001-06:00

M and I visited a new church this weekend as we continue our quest to find a church family. The sermon centered on passages from Ephesians, and his analysis of Eph. 1:4-14 stirred me up, particularly when he made the point that we, in Christ, are part of the ultimate inner circle. He contrasted this to the Earthly inner circles we seek and how much stock we often put into belonging (or not belonging).

I felt so convicted by this as I stuggle a lot with trying to fit in and caring about the impression I give off to others. And I'm not talking about hoping others will notice my attitude and love and recognize it for His praise. (Though that is a real hope of mine.) Rather, I concern myself with superficial stuff: what people think about how I dress, what I eat, how well manicured I am, etc. The ironic part is that I tend to most admire (and develop little girl crushes on) gals who have their very own style and swagger. My closest friends are very unique in their personal style and how they live their lives, and I think they're the bee's knees! Yet I have this goofy tendency to adopt whatever I like about someone else's style, exactly as I see it.

I'm reminded of a fitting quote, which Debby over at Inspired Design posted the other day:

"Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone else. " ~ Judy Garland

Pastor Ted mentioned gossip as one of the ways we try to access the inner circles we seek. We desire to be "in the know," or we want to bring the goods when it comes to a juicy tidbit about someone else. Why do we do this? I frustrate myself, I tell ya! I am particularly bad about jumping on the bandwagon when it comes to hearing a grievance about/toward another. Rather than weigh my words, offer unbiased support, or even venture to present a gracious, alternative way to look at the situation, I get all up in arms. And about something I know nothing about, save for the one-sided story that has been shared with me! I fiercly love my friends and family, but that doesn't have to mean they are always right and that I should assume such.

I'm always thankful for reminders to check myself before I wreck myself, particularly when they come from a place of love and grace.

Recipe: Hearty Vegetarian Soup

2011-11-06T09:30:00.000-06:00

As the temperature cools and the leaves fall, I simply cannot get my fill of warm foods and beverages. Soups in particular are such a comfort, and paired with fuzzy socks and a fire...forget about it!

I'd like to share with y'all a veggie soup recipe that I put together when I was home sick last month and craving some hearty comfort. It's so simple and can easily be edited to accommodate whatever ingredients you have on hand. All measurements are estimated and based on my preferences, so feel free to improvise to taste.

Let's get cookin', y'all!

Hearty Vegetarian Soup
Ingredients:
1 tbsp olive oil
1 box of low-sodium organic vegetable stock*
3 large peeled carrots, sliced 1/4 inch thick
3 stalks of celery, sliced 1/4 inch thick
1 large onion, chopped (sub: shallots)
3 cloves garlic, minced
1.5 cups pasta of your choice (I prefer whole wheat fusili or ziti)
2 large potatoes of your choice, peeled and cubed (I use sweet potatoes if I have them)
1 can low-sodium corn, rinsed (sub: Mexicorn or frozen kernels)
1 can low-sodium green beans, rinsed (use fresh if you've got 'em!)
crushed red pepper flakes
dried oregano
sea salt
fresh cracked pepper
*If you can't find low-sodium stock, I recommend using 3/4 of a box of regular stock and adding a little water.

Directions:
1.) Warm olive oil in a stock pot over medium heat. Sweat carrots, celery and onions for 5-7 minutes.
2.) Add garlic and stir, letting mixture cook for another minute.
3.) Stir in salt, pepper, red pepper flakes and oregano. (I use about 5 turns each on my salt and pepper grinders, two healthy pinches of red pepper flakes, and a pinch of oregano.)
Tip: when using dried herbs, rub the herbs between your palms as you add it to the pot to release the yum.
4.) Add veggie stock and bring to a boil.
5.) Stir in pasta and potatoes. Cook for approximately 10 minutes over med-high heat. (If you're using pasta that's al dente in less than 10 minutes according to the package, add pasta in step 6. You don't want mushy pasta.)
6.) Add corn, green beans, and any other veggies you'd like to throw in there. Cook for approximately 5 minutes.
7.) Add additional seasoning to taste.

This yields a ginormous portion, but this soup is delicious warmed up for a few days afterward. If you're not a fan of leftovers and/or fabulously single, you can easily cut the ingredients in half for a more appropriate serving. You really can't go wrong here unless you OD on the carbs, leaving the pasta and potatoes to soak up all the stock. (Though worse things could happen. Just sayin'.)

I serve this hearty dish with buttered sourdough toast or warmed corn tortillas. Hope y'all enjoy it!

Friday, I'm in Love, v.5

2011-11-04T06:30:00.000-05:00

It's Friday and I'm in love with...

Photo: ambocullum.blogspot.com

Every time I read something from C.S. Lewis--be it a book, an article or my daily Lewis tweets--I am so grateful that God created us all to express ourselves in such unique ways so that we may encourage others who speak our language, so to speak. I often find myself intimidated and confused by some of the classic Christian inspiration available, but Mr. Lewis had a very special voice that challenges and convicts me in the most wonderful ways.

Photo: Special K

I have what some may call an "addiction." If there is a bag of chips in the house...well, there won't be for long. I tried some baked cracker chips as an alternative to snacks that leave me feeling like I've consumed an artificial-cheese-covered brick. These little crisps...yum!

Photo: fromme-toyou.tumblr.com

Especially during the sometimes-dreary fall/winter months, I love how bright red lips can add a touch of playful sensuality. Paired with comfies and easy, run-your-fingers-through hair, it's a special pop of sassy without making too much of a fuss.

Photo: myecoventure.com

As a long-time believer in reusable grocery bags (which I use for everything under the sun, not just food shopping), the adorable reusable sandwich/snack bags available all over the 'net make me do a little happy dance. I can't wait to snag some of my very own to stash within my darling Dia de los Muertos lunch sack.

Whatcha lovin'?

[Inspired Thursdays, v.3] Paris, Je T'aime

2011-11-03T09:10:00.000-05:00

Truth be told, when I briefly visited Paris at 20 years of age, my appreciation for France was eclipsed by the lovely time spent in (and subsequent romance with) Florence. But as of late, I find myself head over heels for all things French and pining to return for a proper visit.

Photo: adiaryoflovely.blogspot.com

There is something so romantic about France, particularly Paris. (Perhaps this is an American construct; in which case, I downed the Kool Aid.) The beautiful women, fragrant patisseries, countless sidewalk cafes, effortlessly chic style, robust fromageries, classic architecture, House of Chanel...all good things for this little girl. It's the je ne sais quoi!

Photo: covetliving.com

Be it personal styling, decorating, eating or drinking, I find myself in a very Parisian state of mind as of late. Given that I tend toward a minimalist, modern aesthetic with a nod to the timeless, these softer elements are welcomed influences.

Now, if only I could master the perfect cappuccino and cat eye...

How are you inspired today?

This little elf is off and running!

2011-11-02T08:05:00.004-05:00

As yesterday marked the first of November (and hopefully the proximate arrival of scarf weather in Texas), and because I would rather swear off coffee for life than step foot near a mall or shopping center in December, I puchased my first few Christmas gifts yesterday!

Lovely giftwrap idea!
(Photo: dustjacketattic.tumblr.com)

I know it is silly early, but I find that I enjoy the season so much more when I shop a little at a time, beginning early in the season.

Not only is it less of a hit to my pocketbook if I spread it out, but starting early also allows me to be a little more thoughtful in my gift-giving. I really dislike grabbing something in a hurry just so I can scratch that person off my list. (I am having a blast gathering inspiration and shopping on Etsy for special somethings for my special someones.)

By getting a jump start, being mindful in my shopping, paring down my list of recipients (I go for quality over quantity...that goes for many things, really), and wrapping as I go, I find that I can avoid a lot of holiday stress and really embrace the season and its joys.

What is your strategy for avoiding a holiday meltdown?

This is Halloween...

2011-10-31T10:28:00.002-05:00

Happy Halloween, dear readers!

We celebrated over the weekend with friends and family at a lovely soiree at the lake house (imagine a sweet B&B, but even more friendly). We went as Jack and Sally Skellington from Tim Burton's The Nightmare Before Christmas and had so much fun with our costumes. (He's camera shy, but trust: he was a very dashing Pumpkin King.)

Please be safe this evening as you head out to trick-or-treat...or whatever shenanigans you have planned!

Friday, I'm in Love, v.4

2011-10-28T09:14:00.000-05:00

It's Friday and I'm in love with...

Photo: decorpad.com

I am definitely a texture person when it comes to design, and I think prints can be a great way to introduce elements that interest the eye and create the same effect as tactile pieces. Damask strikes me as so regal and elegant, especially in modern, unexpected hues and manifestations. (Um, hi, blog background.)

Photo: Etsy

I continue to marvel at the blessing that is family. They don't have to be blood related to immensely shape your heart, but the people with whom you create a cocoon of support and trust are valuable beyond measure. I have the most giving, loving family of people around me, and I feel so grateful for and giddy about that.

Photo: Google

Painted nails can be an accessory in and of themselves. OPI's Over the Taupe is one of my go-to polishes all year 'round. This color is especially yummy when paired with fall boots and coats, and goes equally well with black, browns, grays, navy, etc. (IMO, color polishes look super chic on shorter, manicured nails. Best leave tinted talons to Bonquiqui. Don't get crazy!)

Photo: ricekrispies.com

There is something so nostalgic and wonderful about Rice Krispie Treats, don't you think? I decided to make some for this weekend's Halloween festivities, but it had been a while since I made them so I had to do a dry run first. They were so tasty (and ridiculously simple, especially if you use marshmallow fluff vs. whole 'mallows), and my office mates appreciated my Type A need to test out a recipe before bringing it to the table.

What are you crushing on at the moment?

[Inspired Thursdays, v.2] The World of Tim Burton

2011-10-27T11:32:00.001-05:00

Perhaps because Halloween is looming, or perhaps because of his sheer awesomeness, I am once again knee deep in my adoration of all things Tim Burton.

Photo: Google

I can imagine that given my penchant for girly soft pretties, this may seem an odd romance. But I assure you, my appreciation for this man runs deep and true.

It really knocks me over when someone is not only immensely creative, but so distinctly brands his work that you know within moments you are witnessing a Tim Burton creation (and not just because of the also recognizable/awesome Danny Elfman score). From the creepy-yet-endearing renderings and quirky black and white motifs that pepper his work, to the juxtaposition of his beloved characters with otherwise hum-drum realms, I am absolutely enchanted every time.

"Tree of the Dead" from Sleepy Hollow

I could go on for days about his films and artwork, but I will spare y'all in an attempt to keep this post brief. However, it bears mentioning that Big Fish has been one of my all-time Top 3 Favorite Films for quite a few years now. Given my snobbery, that's saying a lot.

And I may be dressing up as one of his characters for Halloween...

Coffee counts as DIY, right?

2011-10-26T13:22:00.001-05:00

Because if it does, I am a crafty queen!

In a baffling twist of fate, I realized last night that I am completely out of coffee at home. Not a single espresso pod (except for decaf, which doesn't count for life) nor coffee bean to be found. I am not sure how this happened, but I am fairly certain that the apocalypse is near.

Photo: notebookmagazine.com

In light of my coffeeless excuse of an apartment, I drove through Starbucks on the way to work for my morning fix. As much they're mentioned here, I actually rarely visit Starbucks proper. (Rare for an addict, of course. It's all relative.) Admittedly, the prices are a little tough to justify at times, but it is quite a treat when I visit. I get a curiously giddy feeling when I hold that warm iconic cup in my hands, which I like to imagine is how Proust's Marcel felt when nomming his madeleine. But that is purely speculation.

Instant gratification aside, there is something so sensuously special about making one's own coffee. From sniffing out delicious blends in their bags and griding the whole beans to the perfect size, to tamping the grinds* and pulling the perfectly timed shot (if you're an espresso lover like me), the process itself is an experience.

Photo: fancyadance.tumblr.com

Creating a delicious beverage can be an art, and I appreciate the time invested in making something special to start one's day. A little happy with the right accessories (raw sugar, steamed soy, dash o' cinnamon, whatever you fancy) can go a long way.

Photo: myrevelment.com

Happy brewing, dear readers!

*I am kind of a sellout, though, as I inherited an espresso machine with pre-formed pods. ((hangs head))

My Weekend New England Getaway

2011-10-25T13:55:00.000-05:00

I travelled to beautiful New England over the weekend to attend the Christening of my precious niece, Alicia Rae. I have been slacking on my aunt duties as Alicia is nearly ten months old and I had still yet to make it out there. But that has now been remedied. And I am officially obsessed with that baby.

The views en route to Boston airport were lovely and made the 5:00AM flight totally worth it. Watching the sunrise from 35,000 feet? Good stuff.

Seriously? New Hampshire is a special kind of beautiful. As if I don't already pine enough for proper seasons and mature trees as far as the eye can see, I get this breathtaking sight within hours of arriving in Londonderry.

On Sunday morning, I asked my brother-in-law where the nearest Starbucks was. He laughed at me. The northeast is Dunkin' Land, and I must say I was quite pleased with my morning cup o' joe. And the chocolate cake donut. Hey, I was on vacation!

The Christening was beautiful and I'm so honored that I was invited to be present on Alicia's special day. The deacon reminded us all of the crutial role of family in guiding children to the Lord, which made me appreciate my relationship with my sister and her sweet baby girl even more. Not to mention, my brother-in-law's adorable Italian family welcomed me with open arms. (This was my first time meeting them.) It's such a gift that "step-" and "-in-law" don't really mean much in our family. Love and heckling abound in excess.

My Monday morning view. I get it, New England, you're silly beautiful and make magic in my heart!

Saying goodbye to this little lady was not easy. I am head over heels in love. She has shaped me more than I could have imagined, and I pray that I can be the Aunt she and her wonderful family deserves. I can't wait to visit again!

Missing y'all much, Sissy and fam! xoxo

Friday, I'm in Love, v.3

2011-10-21T12:14:00.000-05:00

It's Friday and I'm in love with...

Photo: witanddelight.tumblr.com

While changing over my wardrobe this week (in hopes that this cool fall weather will actually hang around for a while), I lamented the absence of skirts in my fall/winter collection. I am on a mission to add to my closet some of the lovely feminine skirts I've seen this season.

Photo: tresashley.com

There is a childrens book about Audrey Hepburn! Lord help her if I ever have a daughter.

Photo: alwaysamrsforeverakidd.blogspot.com

As an avid coffee drinker, I enjoy all acoutrements and accessories to do with this dark love of mine. Crafty mug cozies make me especially giddy. They're practical, adorable, and eco-friendly. What's not to love?

Photo: rainbowwildfox.tumblr.com

I think I'm morphing into a full-blown girly girl. In addition to my skirt quest (above), I've also become enamoured with pink. Pale pinks mostly, but still. Blush hued accessories and soft sweaters are among my favorites. Perhaps this childhood ballerina will always have an affection for relics and reminders of that pink tutu world.

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I have received some very sweet (and very funny) comments lately, and my page views have been higher than ever. I simply adore you, my dear readers! I so appreciate y'all taking time of our your days to stop by my blog. Some of you have been reading faithfully for years, which still amazes me, and I am so thankful as I see that trend grow. (Side note: Please leave your blog URL in comments so I can keep up with you.)

What are you loving this Friday?

[Inspired Thursdays, v.1] Dropping a Line

2011-10-20T09:53:00.000-05:00

This post is an introduction to my new series, "Inspired Thursdays." Lately (especially), I have found myself stirred by all the beautiful, thoughtful people and things around me, and I wanted to share that with y'all. Please feel free to share your own inspired moments on your blog or in the comments section below. (If anyone is feeling crafty and wants to create a pretty little button for Inspired Thursdays, I would happily use it every week and link back to ya!)

I am a huge fan of good ol' snail mail. In an age of instant gratification when it comes to communication, it is so heart-warming to discover a hand addressed envelope burried in the midst of bills and junk mail in your mailbox. And stamps! Remember stamps?

Photo: etsy.com

I have a very special friend in New Jersey who consistently surprises me with sweet cards and thoughtful gifts, for holidays, special moments in my life, or sometimes for no other reason than to let me know she is thinking about me. It warms my heart beyond words to have someone so sweet in my life who cares about me so. In fact, I am blessed to have quite a few people in my life who encourage me in this manner, and I don't take their care for granted.

Inspired by my generous, sweet friends and family, I am making an effort to more consistently reach out to those who are in my thoughts and heart, for whatever reason or occasion. I try to keep a stash of special note cards that I've collected over the years (I recently loaded up when visiting Powell's Books in Portland) so that I always have something on hand, and it's also a nice idea to keep a few gift cards or small treasures around to send on a whim. (Starbucks cards and quirky items from Francesca's are some of my go-to gifts.) We are all busy and have a lot going on, so keeping these things in stock, so to speak, will allow you to respond to desires to reach out.

Thank you to those of you who brighten my days with your kind words and thoughtful prayers. (Special shout out to my favorite Jersey Girl, Kendra. Love you!) Y'all inspire me so much, and I am definitely shaped by the love given so freely to me.

What inspires you today?
(If you are responding in your own blog, please comment with a link or email me and I'll add it to this post!)

On Sexy Halloween Costumes

2011-10-19T16:15:00.000-05:00

I know: this is not a new topic. It was covered in Mean Girls, it popped up on Sex and the City...we get it. Halloween is the one night (or weekend) of the year on which females are given a hall pass to dress less-than-fully. Fine.

I have gotten over the whole sexy storybook costumes. They've kind of grown on me and some gals actually look pretty darn cute in them. (I don't think they were going for cute, but if you've got bows on your knee-highs and in your pigtails, I'm calling you "cute.") I can even move past the sexy bugs. Shoot, if I had a body like some of those costume models, I might prance around in lingerie, too. (Ok, that's not true. I'm a prude and I know it.)

Gals like to feel sexy and I get that. I personally would prefer some of these get-ups stay in the boudoir as I do not routinely enjoy seeing others' cleavage and butt cheeks displayed so generously. But maybe that's just a short-coming of mine. I will work on that.

Long-standing annoyance aside, I had to chime in on a few gems I discovered while costume shopping with the boyfriend over the past few days:

Photo: spirithalloween.com

"Get it? I'm a bag of Skittles!" Oh...kay. Are the Fun Size packs not sufficient for fellas anymore?

Photo: spirithalloween.com

Nemo?! We couldn't spare an animated clown fish from the sexy costume action, huh?

Photo: spirithalloween.com

DON'T EVEN GET ME STARTED ON THIS.

Photo: yandy.com

Sexy fruit. Fruit. Honestly, I'm surprised it's just now showing up. Fruit is sexier than bugs, and those are practically an institution in the sexy costume world.

Please let me apologize in advance for putting my foot in my mouth if you are sporting one of these get-ups for trick-or-treating this year. I bet you'll look great. Just do Mama Natty a favor and carry some mace in your knee-highs, will ya? Bunch of savages out there.

Whatever you decide to dress up as for Halloween (if y'all participate), have fun with it! Be safe and please remember to behave like ladies and gentleman. There is a lot to be said for a fun costume, hanging out with great friends, enjoying Halloween treats and spirits, and making memories to last you until the next wonderful holiday.

(To be fair, I will post a photo of me in my Halloween costume closer to the 31st. I'm super excited about our outfits! I'm a sucker for movie costumes and the chance to do some character makeup.)

What are you going to be for Halloween?

Movie response: 50/50

2011-10-18T06:45:00.000-05:00

We went to see "50/50" over the weekend, somewhere in the midst of the Halloween movie extravaganza. I didn't know how I would feel about it, but it stirred some things up and I thought I'd share them with y'all. Bear in mind, this isn't so much a review as it is my response to the film. I'm putting my pretentious film self on the shelf for a bit. (For the record, she has gotten a lot cooler.)

Very generally, this is an indie film about a 27-year-old guy who unceremoniously finds out he has cancer. As you could probably ascertain from the title, his chances of survival are 50%. In some ways, the plotline is quite ordinary: he's a pretty average guy, leading a pretty average life, who is one day smacked in the face with a disease. But it's the examination of what becomes one's every day life when dealing with this illness that etched this sweet, restrained film into my heart.

Photo: www.50-50themovie.com

Many of y'all may recall from past blogs that I lost my dear mama to cancer last year. While I can't imagine what it's like to be the patient, I learned a lot from battling through it with my best friend. We were very honest with each other and spoke quite candidly about how she felt and what she believed, and I was fortunate enough to be with her for almost all of her appointments/treatments. It's a unique world, and believe it or not, it can be a beautiful one.

50/50 skillfully captured this underlying beauty via the relationships Adam (played by Joseph Gordon-Levitt...or as the boyfriend calls him, "Jordan Love-Hewitt") forges with some of the older fellows with whom he receives chemo. Those candid chats, the ribbing, the melding of one's identity with one's disease (introductions consist of name and diagnosis), the support...it's all right on.

Even in the midst of debilitating chemotherapy treatments, I witnessed some of the most joyful, funny, sincere expressions of human behavior. Not to be poster children, not to give cancer a prettier face, but because these were extraordinary people battling a hell of a beast and they weren't about to let illness change who they were. Love is given more freely and there's no need for formalities. Lost all your hair? Rock the cue ball; it's too dang hot for a hat/wig. Sweating like a fiend? No one is above being fanned with a radiation info pamphlet.

(Not surprising, writer Will Reiser truly battled cancer, and at an even younger age. And Seth Rogen is his real-life friend, God help him. Kidding!)

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Another insightful element of this film is how Reiser captured the ways in which cancer patients often find themselves taking care of everyone around them. It's not a bad thing, per se, and has nothing to do with loved ones being selfish. It just happens. No one knows what to do or say, so it's not uncommon for the one who is sick to be the same person who is comforting those who feel helpless. They minimize and simplify, make the best of the situation and learn to rattle off their current condition with little more emotion than they'd recite the alphabet. It becomes fairly matter-of-fact when it's inevitably the center of every conversation you have. Rare are the moments when the one fighting can honestly confess, "I'm scared. This sucks. I feel like crap and I just want it to be over. Whatever that means." (A candid session with Adam's adorable therapist in the film, played by Anna Kendrick, reveals this very attitude.)

We've all been touched by cancer. Some more than others, sure. But at the center of this story is an examination of the challenges that life will bring your way. Not can, will. The people in your life--in all their awkward, uncertain, wrong-thing-at-the-wrong-time-sayin' glory--are as vital to your story as anything.

Let me know what y'all think of the film if/when you see it. I recommend you do.